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    If you could change the past, is there a decision you would change, or would you do things differently ?

    I've thrown away work opportunities, and made some unfortunate life choices in the past, I sometimes wonder how my life may have been different...maybe I'd be living in a skyscraper instead of the country....?

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    They're a couple of things I would definitely change.  I wouldn't be where I am now if I did.......

    If I changed even one day...I would not be half as savvy as I am today!!

    Far too many to list here. I guess the one that comes to mind most often was an opportunity to live & work in San Diego for 2 years. I was only about 22 at the time & I thought I had a lot more going on here.I just wonder what it would have led to.

    The Past is over- why torture onesself with what ifs and woulda, coulda, shouldas.  I try to learn, grow, and accept each day.

    Oh sure but I don't like to dwell on the past and what "might have been".  It's possible that if I could have the chance to change or re-do some things, I may very well make poor decisions in some other area.  Guess I'll just keep believing that I am, who I am supposed to be, and keep movin' along....   :)

    bulletman

    That is clever, realistic thinking, Duck.:)
    Ducky

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    Thanks bulletman...movin' right along... :)

    I would have definately at seventeen have joined the Royal Australian Navy, hopefully i would have had a better out come 45 years later.

    doolittle

    Maybe- but you could have died young! Plus we like you!!!!
    bulletman

    Thanks LittleDoo, the Navy pretty safe.
    ROMOS

    I joined the Royal Navy aged 15,never regretted it for one minute, made me the man I am today.
    lambshank

    I joined the Army, not sure which of us hated it more,never worked out why we had to run everywhere when there were perfectly good vehicles, left and went to uni

    Everyone makes bad choices in their lives. We learn from each one and move on to the next bad choice. No two alike. if a person continues making the same bad choice and expecting different results they are either mentally challenged or a scientist.  They are pretty close..  :)

    lambshank

    I agree, at least I've made different bad choices!!
    doolittle

    Yup- making the same choice and expecting different results is a definition of insanity!

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    doolittle

    And I'm glad you are healthy in all respects- So you can fully enjoy Wonderful!!
    FISH-O

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    lambshank

    wonderful to be positive with no regrets, I'm (shame on me, a little mercenary)

    Sure, many things. But I cannot change the past, I have to live one day at a time.

    lambshank

    doing the same Anne

    nope...life is re learnin and making good choices as well as bad!!!!...IT`S A LEARNING JOURNEY!!...I`D LOVE TO BE BETTER HEALTHWISE...BUT I HAVENT GIVEN UP ON THAT YET!!!...i try to make people happy....i do wrong ..i do some right...but in the words of kylie...i wouldnt change a thing!!!!!:-)))LOL!!

    lambshank

    think I wouldn't have started smoking, healthwise

    Theres quite a lot of things i wish id done differently but hindsights a wonderful thing.Accept the things you cannot change...Good question though.



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