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    Why didn't you bother to answer this Q? "What salient feature(s) attracted you to (or distracted from) a person at the first sight at different stages of your life?"

    +3  Views: 1031 Answers: 5 Posted: 12 years ago

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    As a youngster in the teen years it was all about the hair...very superficial,then it was all about "feelings" and not really about looks...and now that I am a bit wiser, well, it's all about talk.understanding and mutual admiration.Great question...sorry I missed it first run through!Peace.

    valR

    Did you TU my answer with picture or without picture? :)

    Well for starters, I never saw it. I've also been extremely busy today handling forum issues. To answer your question, the personality. That's it. At all stages of my life.  

    Its always been the personalty of a person that I was attracted to in all stages of my life,

    valR

    Agree but my question included "at the first sight". You cannot figure out the personality that fast... One thing that could turn me down very badly was/is the voice.
    Ann

    It was eye contact first. Eyes are the mirror of the soul.
    valR

    I (or rather eye?)see...

    Always avoided pushy people. If you don't have an open mind, I have no use for you. That's how I've always been.

    valR

    early wise man... my hat off!

    Matisse : -) 


     

    Colleen

    Moderator
    To the members: I've gotten complaints about this picture but I will not remove it because it is considered art not pornography. If anyone disagrees with my call on this, they can still go to the admin who can override my decision.

    Valr, if you could be a little more subtle with your pictures in the future, it would be appreciated. We do have kids on the forum though I do understand they can see drawings and pictures like this in a museum.
    valR


    No problem, no comments, no apologies...
    Colleen

    Moderator
    No worries ;)

    (I did not remove the pic, I'm assuming Val did. This did not have to be done.)
    valR

    I removed the picture. Shall I put it back?
    lindilou

    Without but I love Matisse so whatever it was it must have been awesome!!! :)
    valR

    It is awesome...
    Colleen

    Moderator
    You can put it back. As I said, it's art, not pornography.
    lindilou

    ...had I known Mattise was a peeping tom...well I...um...excuse me...blushing!!!!!!! (blinkity blink) lol
    Colleen

    Moderator
    *Update* Rules from the admin have changed. Even nude pictures deemed as art are no longer allowed on akaQA.
    lindilou

    I don't mind actually...everyone seeing me in all my glory like that....yikes!! ;)


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