9 Answers

Take the bandaid off as quickly as possible.  Tell him the truth and move on. 

grrrrr??? Doesn't sound like you are too concerned. Do it with honesty, and usually the less said, the better.

Is this the same guy yuo were asking about in your last question?

Explain to him that until he can get his jealousy and mistrust under control he leaves you no choice but to be just his friend with him which frees you to being able to give hugs to your guy friends. 

Co-Dependents Anonymous
http://www.coda.org/   

This group should be your next stop in your adventure of discovering the one you like the most. It is about how people think and behave toward each other. Nothing gives you the confidence and skills you need to handle situations like the one you have brought up like CODA does. Colleen is correct in her assessment. Everyone is responsible for our own thinking. Understanding our personal responsibility for our own situations is vital to our own well being and happiness. Attend CODA it’s so much nicer than a lifetime of social blundering.

to longer you wait the worse does get

you cannot control another`s feelings.

yes

"The heart was made to be broken."   ~ Oscar Wilde