close
    if a man did not work when u got with them and u had a baby is he going to ever get a job

    +3  Views: 518 Answers: 12 Posted: 8 years ago

    12 Answers

    So, the two of you got pregnant, he did not have a job, you knew he did not have a job (if you were having sex, I assume, that you at least knew that much about him).  Keep this in mind.  He was irresponsible in allowing a pregnancy (and that doesn't let you off the hook) so what makes you think that he will suddenly change his attitude? Start making a plan to look after yourself and your child and DON'T GET PREGNANT AGAIN.  My guess is...you are on your own.  Good luck and LEARN from this.


    (I just noticed in your other response....kid with an "S".  Are you kidding me?)

    Is he even looking for a Job? If not, then dont count on it.

    No worry, have the baby and apply for Welfare and the people who get up and go to work every day and pay taxes will cover the expenses for the little one.

    feliciawest

    no i take care of my kids
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Kids? plural? How sad and irresponsible.
    pioneer2

    Love the sarcasm ..... my sentiments exactly.

    No , because 90 % chance he will end up in prison for drugs or theft. Start saving your money. he will be asking you money for his commissary account.  He will be doing about 4 years. yes he will have a job , its called a hoe squad.

    TSC

    YUP. :)

    Probably not and one would be crazy to keep living with him or having anything to do with him.

    feliciawest

    thinks he wants me to do everything and he still want to stay with his mama
    Darci13

    Sorry you need to leave him alone get him out of your life and move on this is going nowhere but worse.

    Oh my - this guy doesn't have too much going for him you deserve more - get hold of yourself - what is going on just seen what Ducka pointed out not just the one and how many daddies are there where is all this going?? - get some help with all this take very good care of yourself and the kids and the very best of luck!!!  

    Do you cross the street without looking too ?????   Or do you look sometimes ??/

    You can usually predict someone's future behavior, based on their past behavior. Why did you have a baby with him  when he wasn't working ?


     

    mycatsmom

    And don't have another baby with him ! He's not a good role model for your kids.

    What an incredibly silly question.  Let me ask one of YOU:  How many OTHER women have kids of his that he isn't supporting? 

    Ducky

    Moderator
    The odds are high, I suspect.

    you might have better luck getting the baby a job..

    TSC

    LMFAO!
    Ducky

    Moderator
    LOL!!!!

    If you consider being a pimp a form of employment, the answer is definitely "yes".  He appears to have the proper credentials to be one.

    And how long is a piece of string ?



    Top contributors in Friends category

     
    Benthere
    Answers: 12 / Questions: 0
    Karma: 12515
     
    jhharlan
    Answers: 135 / Questions: 2
    Karma: 12375
     
    Ducky
    Answers: 67 / Questions: 0
    Karma: 8590
     
    Bob/PKB
    Answers: 80 / Questions: 10
    Karma: 8165
    > Top contributors chart

    Unanswered Questions

    445342
    questions
    715995
    answers
    628334
    users