Darci13
9 Answers
country bumpkin
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| 12 years ago. Rating: 10 | |
Ducky
Many people have emotional scars which can't be seen. But, in addition, most people have difficulties that they live with everyday of their lives, which also can't be seen. While some people feel free to discuss problems with anyone who will listen, others go about their lives and do the best they can to enjoy it. Sometimes it is believed that the "non-whiners" have perfect lives. I say...NEVER ASSUME. We don't know what it's like to live in anyone else's shoes, do we?
(And I know, that I sometimes forget that, even though I believe it!)
| 12 years ago. Rating: 10 | |
rainny49
Emotioal scars are Are really bad.I have both outside and inside scars.I found taking to people who have gone through some of the things i'v been through really helps.Some times it helps if u write it down on paper.Just for your eyes or u can share them if u feel comfortable with it.Good luck and God Bless!!!!!!!
| 12 years ago. Rating: 9 | |
Bob/PKB
My personal theory is the emotional scars are more detrimental to a person's happiness and ability to function in society, life, relationships, etc. than the occasional physical scar. Many, many times I have commented that just because one doesn't see a band-aid, cast, or scar doesn't mean a person hasn't suffered tremendous, permanent emotional, psychological scarring. I am CONSTANTLY aware of the emotional scars that have incapacitated and inhibited me. How I would like to put those hurts in a box with an anchor chained around it and drop it into the deepest part of the ocean.
I don't blame the people who said or did those scarring things, the no-good, inconsiderate morons; (:-0) it's my problem for taking them to heart and holding onto them, some for over 50 years.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
melandrupert
I think emotional scars are far worse than scars by accidents ect I think everyone in thier entire life has a emotional scar at one time its the way we dael with it I have had a few and they have been really bad and one day I will tell you but not yet as you know too much going on...I tend not to think about them as I call them history but now and again they creep back but one must dust those things off and start again very deep qestion but good (keep losing my U on this board)
| 12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
sawali
FISH-O
Both type of scars can last forever. We do have the power to change our emotional scars. You and only you have the power to change and move forward.
Life is a journey. No one said it was easy. It is yours to experience and enjoy.
It is your right to enjoy your life.
You may as well. You have nothing to loose except bad stuff.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
ed shank
We are who we are because of bad baggage. Imagine never having anything bad happen to us in our lifetime. Living in the garden of Eden. We would all be the same, everyone's personality identical to the next. Sounds boring. Being told you'll never amount to anything is painful, but it can drive you to prove them wrong. That drive can propel you to success and even greatness in some instances. Regardless of all the negative garbage thrown at me in my younger years I've always replied "I can do anything that I put my mind too, bar nothing". I have proved them all wrong.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
Mr.Den
A father was trying to teach his son the power of a sharp tongue. He told him everytime you hurt someone by putting them down, you go put a nail in a fence post. After a few months the father showed his son the fence post with all the nails in it. He then instructed his son to remove all the nails. The post was full of scars from the nails. Now you can not remove the scars no matter what you do. After he had done this the father said, son you may be able to say you are sorry to someone but the scars will still be there.........So now watch your tongue in the first place and think before you speak.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
