shekhar60
11 Answers
pythonlover
Colleen
Ducky
daren1
PANDA
" Why did the two of you get married in the first place, (Marriage) is a sacred contract."
| 12 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
jhharlan
Bob/PKB
This is one of the biggest cans of worms in the whole world. It looks the same on the outside, but the stuff underneath is unique because no two people, and certainly no two couples, are alike.
I would suggest, if you are the wife, you seek counseling. Talking with a "disinterested" third party can be helpful in seeing things from an objective view. The counselor can be a church leader or someone with a shingle hanging outside an office.
If you are the husband, either drop the girlfriend or leave your marriage. It is unconscionable to continue using and hurting people, especially ones you "love".
It just crossed my mind that the husband may be soliciting prostitutes......there's another can of worms.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
" I've been hav-in (SEX) since I was 13,years of age and I've always held (sex) sacred ! & dear to my heart! not to mention other areas down south, if-in you catch my mean-in ? " ;)
| 12 years ago. Rating: 3 | |
We'd have many less problems as a country if people waited til they were 30.
dunc
It is nothing to do with anyone only the individuals concerned ,anyone not in their marriage or marriages or that is not the bit on the side be it man or woman should mind their own business and keep their opinions to themselves and their mouths shut .
| 12 years ago. Rating: 2 | |
doolittle
The rhino I know thinks there is something amiss in this relationship- which, apparently, is why rhinos don"t wed. The swans I spoke too believe this IS NOT a good thing (and they mate for life). Alas, it is a sad situation. Divorce is the course my CHEATER and I took- please note I stayed with the jerk for over a year- hoping that we could resolve things- However, it did not work. It is a much stranger story but I care not to share other details.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 1 | |
caddam
This is a tough one. There is no magic bullet that works every time to cure the situation and live happily ever after. From talking with many people I could write a very lengthy list as to why a spouse cheats. My wife and I conducted a divorce recovery group for several years. We heard reasoning from both sides on the issues which become the rationalized excuse for cheating. There is no single answer. If the relationship ends the best revenge is to have a good life afterwards. Many people I have known found divorce to be, eventually, an opporunity for a dramatic personal growth. I've known others to stagnate, compounding hatred, and remain unloveable and miserable for 20 years. Really doesn't have to be that way though.
Daddy said, "If it don't kill ya' it kin make ya stronger"
| 12 years ago. Rating: 1 | |
