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    why is it that girls like to follow guys with no dignity and bad boys and not good guys with respect?

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    Young girls, immature girls, think a "bad boy" is romantic and exciting and dangerous (the last certainly being true).  Some think that being bullied or abused is OK.  
    These girls have little or no self-esteem, for the most part (there are exceptions).  
    Be the respectful guy and the good guy....you have a lifetime in front of you.   A good "history" will take you further in every aspect of it.  You will come across many women who will appreciate and love you for the good points.  Respect yourself always.  
    My mom's words apply here:  TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE  (which means don't try to be something you are not). 

    mycatsmom

    thought that was Shakesphere
    Bob/PKB

    My mom's maiden name was Shakespeare? :D

    truth is evil attracts , in this world bad boys are more fun to be with, nobody likes a goody two shoes their no fun to be with, not my opinion but it's the way of the world..

    Not all girls are looking for the bad guy gonna change him thing.  Some girls are looking for the decent guys but they too are hard to find.

    Have you ever heard "Why are all of the GOOD guys married?"  Be a good guy! You'll find a nice gal, fall in love, marry, etc.

    Bob/PKB

    How did I miss this perfect answer??? RIGHT ON. (Do you think there are any good guys who aren't married I should meet?)
    doolittle

    I hope so!

    Colleen is right.......try finding girls interested in things you like.........good luck

    Not all girls do. Apparently you are following the girls that are all wrong for you. Try looking in a different section of the pond. 

    PBhoye

    pls what do you mean
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Means you are reaching for girls who are not interested in good guys. Look at the girls you've been ignoring, they are probably the good girls that are more suited to you.

    It's because although they think have a clue, they really don't, otherwise they wouldn't be chasing those types of guys. So, to some it up in a nutshell...they've done you a favor, although you might not realize it at the moment!

    Don't know why, but your right. In my crew of idiots at age 17, if you weren't on probation the girls wouldn't look at you. Luckily for me I was a bad car thief, was on probation twice.

    mycatsmom

    My ex fiance' ---who was my fiance' in my 20s, had stolen cars in H.S. 2 X and got caught both times. He never went to prison, but the ring leader did.

    cuz the  bad boys have an edge to them.......more exciting......y' know.....the Fonzie, James Dean type. And the good guys are boring......like Richie Cunningham

    Bob/PKB

    Richie wasn't BORING....he just didn't have that mysterious thing going on....

    Because some girls lack self esteem , dont mind getting beat up , want to please their boyfriend, dont know any better life.

    Bob/PKB

    ....and many of them grew up with that as an example....like that's the way it's supposed to be. Reminds me of a Chris Rock comedy set that makes me laugh EVERY time I hear it.
    zorro

    i just went through this again with my niece. A total esteem problem hanging around trashy people , saying she cant meet nice boys. I reported them to their probation officer and made their lives a little miserable , for now. she cant believe her friend had an assault charge on another woman. Thats how i spent my vacation.

    " HEY!  I resemble that remark ! ;) "

    The movies and TV shows have done a lot to promote the Bad Boy Image.



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