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If you feel like he is a threat or a danger to you or is stalking you, contact the police and get a restraining order on him. Otherwise, get some really large male friends who wouldn't mind going and scaring some sense into him. Ignore him the best you can and keep friends around you as much as possible. Change your phone numbers and alert your job that he is a stalker so they can call the police if he shows up there again. Good luck and I hope he gets the message soon.

Colleen

Then you are accepting the headache of having him around. You need no help here. You've already decided to keep him and the drama he flings. Good luck to you.

ask him to stay as friend and no more. since u don't have feelings beyond being a friend, no point in giving him hope. Be decisive .Period. Discuss this over a cup of coffee because you will be able to tell him in a relaxed yet public place and gauge him better. If at the end you feel he might be a threat, be prepared to involve police.