I married young and we spent every weekend at HIS parents house, I got used to it but it was weird when we separated....I wasn't allowed any more...

Ducky

That is one of the many sad things about marriage break-ups. The relationship with "the outlaw" often can't continue for a whole lot of reasons.

Hi Jenn, 5 years ago my husband and I moved to Texas to retire and be around his family.  My family decided to do the same and now we are all here in Texas except for my older Sister.  The first year was fun and games.  The next 2 years were spent trying to get privacy back.   The last 2 have been better because we have ALL learned our boundaries.  So it has taken 5 years for all of us "Adults" to grow up enough to live peacefully around each other for the first time since we left home in our teens.  The key is to keep your problems to yourselves but still be open about your life to your family.  regards/yvonne57

My husband and I would never have made it if we hadn't moved away. My parents were politically on the left and his were on the far right. It wasn't a good situation for us.

We had to move away and learn how to speak of what was "bright and shiney" It was a marriage-saving move for us.

They have not got any option the cost of living is so expensive the house market well everthing really is just too expensive people are unable to manage

My first husband and I lived with my parents for three years, before I came to this country and we always had a great relationship with them. They were very supportive and stayed out of our business. When I came to this country, we lived with my in-laws for 6 month before we found our own place, not very far from them. I always had a great relationship with them also, especially my mother-in-law who became my second mother. I was very lucky to have had them in my life.

Left home at 16, married at 18. The last people I wanted to see at that time were my parents. The first visit my mother made to our apartment, she started to move pictures and furniture around because they were not to her liking. I escorted her out of house, and asked her not to return until she took a class in etiquette.

MOST  DEFINITELY !!!!!!!

Keep away as much as possible and bonk each other senseless everyday or at least till your worn out be friendly toward your inlaws though

Let everyone make their own mistakes.  I offer no opinion to any of my kids choices. It's their life I just wait to be asked for an opinion.  You just got to let it be.

Absolutely.