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If he genuinely wants to spend time with his friends, and you are starting to do everything by yourself is giving him permission to carry on and you will just drift even further apart over time.You have to sit down together and discuss some ground rules for your relationship.You have to work out how each of you are going to get what you want out of this.

First, make sure he's listening!

This is a topic I am very familiar with. I don't hang in bars but I do spend a lot of time with friends at either my shop or there place. The topic is always engines and cars. I don't respond well to ultimatums, so she doesn't give me one. I do try to make it up some how. Dinner at one of her favorite spots after work. I will suggest a night at the movies even though I hate them and she knows it. I know she appreciates that I do make an effort to spend more time with her. She never nags, but will drop a few comments from time to time.

Tell him over a nice bottle of wine, be nice about it. If worse comes to worse, suggest counseling for the both of you. Perhaps he just doesn't realize there is a problem.......

PLAY THE SAME GAME . SEE HOW HE ACTS !!

if wonderkdyke's suggestion doesn't work, accept you have a PROBLEM!!!

Do you have common interests??  If you do then you can plan a "couples night" partaking in that interest.  Otherwise, tag along and hang with the guys.

tell him if he stays at home with you more, you'll give him more sex. That'll do it.