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If he is cheating I would have to say probably not and if I were you I would make a tough decision here do you want someone in your life you do not or cannot trust?

He can love you but it's the level of love and the commitment that matters. Can you live with a cheater? Once a cheater always a cheater.

He is the only one who can answer this.The trouble is,he has cheated on you so he is capable of lying. You are in a bad place & I don't envy you.You have some thinking to to do,some questions to ask (Him) & some difficult decisions to make. Good luck with it Jackie.

You say your husband was cheating on you.  How can he truly love you when he cheated on you?

Having your spouse cheat on you is a definite blow to your self esteem.......just remember though that he is the one who cheated and he has to live with himself....if you have been faithful yourself just rise above his indiscretion at this time....hold your head high and let him feel your disdain....don't let it get you down...I'm sure he still loves you or he probably would have left by now...he himself may be the insecure one....midlife crises perhaps?? .... or a younger man who didn't sow all of his wild oats before marriage? Hang in there...nobody said marriage would be easy, did they?

I think that he does love you or he would not have agreed to marriage,  he just can't stay faithful sexually,......is that something you can live with???

have you asked him

Men (OK, not all of you...) cheat. What are you willing to put up with? Is your marriage good otherwise? Are there kid? Do you love him? Is loving you just what you want? You have a good deal to go through and some decisions to make.  TALK with your husband...