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    All my life I have been pushed around Why?

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    As someone who has always been pushed around....mine was an issue with self esteem. I never fought for anything I wanted because I didnt think I deserved it......If you have the same issues, You deserve it and you deserve to be happy !!!!! GooooooD  Luck!!!!!!!

    difficult question.Next time someone asks you to do something you dont want to could you try saying no.Be nice about it but stick to your guns.Dont let people use you or take advantage but try  and be a bit more assertive,good luck,let us know how you get on

    Must learn to push back.. Should be learned early in life. 

    Some times you have to stand up for yourself .Not fight but by asking Why? do you beheave that way ,would you like it if someone did that to you .  I was brought up to fight my dad said some times its thev only answer .You know he was right .But i would rather talk. so that gives you two options good luck.

    Sounds like a self-esteem problem. Perhaps counseling is in order, do ya think?

    You just need to learn to survive on your own, support yourself, you wont be pushed around all your life. Stay away from people doing it. Learn to be more aggressive. My older son use to wrestle around and be really aggressive towards his younger brother.  They younger one did really well in football , knowing how to be aggressive when necessary. He was the smallest kid on team and could be just as agressive as senior kids. he was only freshman on senior team because of agressiveness.



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