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    4. What hurts a guy in a relationship? (Don't include cheating)
    What hurts a guy in a relationship? (Don't include cheating)

    The question "why do guys always hurt girls in the end" was posted here and got me to thinking about guys being hurt in relationships.  It has to happen!  What are some of the things that are done or said that disappoint or hurt you?  How do you react? 

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    +7  Views: 822 Answers: 15 Posted: 12 years ago
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      Being compared to former partners.I have seen this & the distress it caused the guy involved.

      12 years ago. Rating: 7
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        Being 'fooled' into a marriage agenda..  My ex wife and I had a wonderful coutship lasting about 5 years, we went everywhere together, did everything together, I fell in love, I thought she was in love too.. After we got married, she quit going places with me, she would do nothing with me but stay home- She would go places with her girlfriends, her mom etc, she had an agenda, she pushed me out--  After many pleads and talks, she showed no interest in me,  eventually something bad happened I had an affair, didn't start that way, I just needed someone to talk to... But I was the bad guy and she wiped me out.. This was her agenda.. A 7 year plan.  We had a goldmine together, she got the gold, I got the shaft..  I have brought this up here before and got my butt chewed, believe me, I do not condone affairs but sometimes, it is the spouses fault, in my case, she had a plan and the plan worked..

        12 years ago. Rating: 8
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          coccodrillo

          was you wife ukranian?
          commented 12 years ago
          Vinny

          No, she was a redneck -- She was 'Hinze57' She had 57 varieties of ethnic backgrounds.. :) But they will always say 1/4 Cherokee Indian, they all say that.. LOL Matter of fact, the one i am married to now for 27 years is also a redneck, she's 1/4 Cherokee too!! HA!!!
          commented 12 years ago
          matheneyg

          Sounds like my ex got her kids thru school and got it broke off after ward.
          commented 12 years ago
          country bumpkin

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          I'm plum full of Indian blood, I'm just not sure which tribe I belong to. We don't all have agendas. I'm glad you found your goldmine. :)
          commented 9 years ago
          Vinny

          Bumpkins!! 'She got the gold, I got the Shaft'.. There's a difference! As for Indian, I always found it amusing that most everyone born in the south will claim indian heritage, most claim 1/4 Cherokee. Fact is, most of them have Scots/Irish/spanish--with some Indian too Listen to the Bluegrass music and Clogging, you will see the real heritage of the southerners. I married two of them so I guess that makes me a southerner too with Cherokee blood, 1/4. LOL!
          commented 9 years ago
          country bumpkin

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          The wife you've been married to for 27 years is who I'm referring to as the goldmine. :)
          commented 9 years ago
          Vinny

          Yeah, she's a sweetie! But I don't like her, she hates me too but we love each other. :)
          commented 9 years ago
          country bumpkin

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          For some reason I totally get this..:)
          commented 9 years ago
          Vinny

          Last week she told me to get lost, then got upset because i came home late. I told her I got lost.
          commented 9 years ago

          Trying to change him

          12 years ago. Rating: 7
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            Changing the TV station when he is watching the football game would hurt.

            12 years ago. Rating: 5
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              Spaceghost

              True that !!
              commented 12 years ago

              Leaving the toilet set down would hurt.

              12 years ago. Rating: 5
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                Marriage?


                ""

                12 years ago. Rating: 4
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                  Bob/PKB

                  too funny
                  commented 12 years ago

                  single today  got my butt burned too bad last time around  dam woman even brought her boyfriend  to our bed  while i was  out on the road  makeing a living for us.

                  12 years ago. Rating: 4
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                    Checking hes e-mail would hurt.

                    12 years ago. Rating: 4
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                      Lies, no respect.......

                      12 years ago. Rating: 3
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                        usually they found a new one,and there is nothing you could do

                        12 years ago. Rating: 3
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                          spent his money

                          12 years ago. Rating: 3
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                            Stop feeding the bastard. He'll be on bent knees shortly.

                            12 years ago. Rating: 2
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                              When someone doesn't value you as a person.If you care about someone respect them, be sensitive to their needs,  Kindness and thoughtfulness play a big roll too.


                              Honesty is the corner stone to every relationship! Without it, you will fail!

                              12 years ago. Rating: 2
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                                Doing the exact oppisite of what they ask you to do

                                12 years ago. Rating: 2
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                                  Loss of FREEDOM.

                                  12 years ago. Rating: 1
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                                    Bob/PKB

                                    If I answered this the way I want, I might be censored. Let me just say that it would not be rude to you, TSC, and it would not be inappropriate. It just doesn't belong here.
                                    commented 12 years ago
                                    TSC

                                    ME BAD :(
                                    commented 12 years ago
                                    Bob/PKB

                                    I meant MY answer, too. Thanks for changing yours!! :)
                                    commented 12 years ago


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