14 Answers

Seriously, go see a marriage counselor.

You don't "get" someone to like you.  You must first like her and when she feels your sincerity, she'll begin to like you back.  BTW, go get her a new cat.  That'd be a good start.

Well I could have helped if you only came in the pecking order after the 3 kids and 2 dogs but to be ousted to below a dead cat, mate you have a real problem that only suicide can fix. Your wife not you Aw shit! too late. Stupid bastard!

I would have to wonder what it was that turned her away from you in the first place. Thats what you need to consider and how you can change it. I also have to warn you that change has to come from a desire within, not for someone else, or like the leopard...it is hard to change your spots. Sometimes letting go and just accepting that she has moved on is the best advice. There are plenty of wonderful women out there but you have to learn to love who you are and let go of the past grudges, learn your lessons from the past so you don't continue to repeat them. Good luck.

No! but you got me thinking , maybe i should have.

Colleen

I can see why your wife may not like you. Kind of a sucky attitude you have there.

Well,Id get rid of the cat for a start.She probably thinks it's you stinking the place up.

My goodness, you've only had sex, three times in twelve years!

Well maybe I am just guessing here did you killl the cat?

Go get her a cat. 

A female friend said to me one time if a female makes up her mind.Its made up and no going back no matter what you due. Iv been happy ever sense.

Colleen  that was not very nice.

Colleen

Neither are you apparently. You're the one who said you should have killed the cat. I'm thinking about whether I should delete this whole thread or not.

did not see that one comming maybe i should look deeper into my own heart so that ill know whats she is going thorgh thanks!

After 12 yrs. you should give up and accept your fate .  Good luck we're all counting onya!

Is your wife ALLEGRIC to sperm like mine is? :(