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I am sorry for your upset you will mend that broken heart and it will take time you must be positive all the time and you meet someone day and be very happy we have all been there and got over it and I am sure the next person you will meet better than the one who has left you cna always ask anything on this site and someone will always give you good advise and you wont be lonely good luck

Find a way to fill the emptiness inside, personally I look up to God to help me through my difficult times and He does. I also have learned that I have to keep myself very busy. When you are busy doing things, work,  hanging out with friends and family, painting etc., whatever you enjoy it will take your mind off the sad stuff. I hope you feel better soon, time heals all wounds, eventually.

You forgot  the first Commandment,You need scpecial help to make a most important decission, when you want someone to spent Life with, You need GOD in macking life committemrnt. Sorry but that just the way it is, less you want what everybody else mess up their lives. And start all over again, after so many year has been wasted in people lives , why would you put yourself threw that same ordeal?

Believe me when I say this, many people screw up their whole life looking for just right person,And when they did think ,now I'll be happy for the rest of my life ,nothing but a whole joke!

It will just take time jeweldelight.  Go out with your friends when you are ready.  Try to stay busy.  Cry.  Throw a few things around.  You will feel better eventually.  I know you don't  think so now but it's so true.   It's just like mourning.  First you are sad, then mad, then you come to accept it and move on.  Good luck.

Yeah, but you can have both.

You dont recover from a broken heart.,jeweldelight,it will always be part of you,   Just hang in there,and although you can not see it now,there will be someone out thier,in need of you love,xxx

My mother years ago told me when you fly past the clouds sooner or later the sun will apper and your life well restart.

You start by knowing the the broke heart is yours and does not belong to anyone else. Treat yourself well.

I dont think you ever do recover, you just go on to new things and find things in others to enjoy and share with a new smile.

Time,and prayer never hurts either.:) Good luck,and remember....one day at a time.

My sincere sympathy, Jewel. Broken hearts mend either by themselves or through some action you take. Or it can remain broken and agonising by repeated 'picking' at it. Simply 'putting it behind you' does not work. It only devalues the love that was there and the pain that is there.

May I suggest, my dear, that you accept the pain that you are experiencing as your part in understanding Love itself. Every experience you have can be a gift to offer up to God, and that includes the pain that often comes as a result of Love rejected. Your suffering is identical to the rejection pain that God feels when we turn our backs on Him. You can offer your pain to Him as a gift of empathy. Offering it as a gift gives your pain meaning and value and the act of giving relieves you of the pain and it is replaced by understanding. That clears the way for you to forgive the one who hurt you and forgive yourself for the anger that is part of that pain.

Get out and meet people and help people. Go to a Christian Singles group at a church. They go on nice trips and have fun activities.  I got my heart broken twice by the same person when I was in my 20s. , so I know how you feel.  He drove me just about to the brink.

That's easy, find someone else with pots of money.

It takes time. time. time. some day these feelings will be memories and you may write. No wait - write now. get a notebook. write down all the little things. how the flowers smell. i wish i could tell you what i'm thinking about but i have to rush off.

you can't rush it. creative work might help. art, music, writing.  actually, any work.

sorry. be well. 

One way I found was good, keep busy, have your mind on other things. It will take time. Good Luck.

Do like, I've done for 31yrs., PRETEND AND HOPE!!!

have faith in yourself and don't stop lookong for the right person...it worked for me after a divorce and losing the second wife....................but i have found miss perfect...