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IamPamela313

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I believe your boyfriend is taking you for granted, show and tell him what he is doing to you. If you don't see a change, dump him.

14 years ago. Rating: 8
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Mmouse

Good advise. You can't change anybody,they have to change themselves.

commented 14 years ago

IamPamela313

So true!

commented 14 years ago

Spaceghost

Right on Pamela !!!!

commented 14 years ago

Chiangmai

Pamela means business tonight! Watch out guys.

commented 14 years ago

IamPamela313

Thanks you guys. Lots of love to ya! :-)

commented 14 years ago

Producer

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It all starts with communication but his behavior might take time to change. Some people just are not aware of others pain.

14 years ago. Rating: 8
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Colleen

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Compassion has to be in a person. If it's not there, then they're going to need a life changing experience to put it there. Do you think you can be his life changing experience? You have to matter more to him than he matters to himself to be that kind of experience for him.

14 years ago. Rating: 7
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Chiangmai

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In all seriousness, I think Suz said compassionate, not passionate. I know we all are having the Lorena Bobbitt syndrome today. If she truly means compassionate, then I think it is perfectly normal for a young man to be less compassionate than a young woman would be. My daughters are many times more sensitive than my son. If Suz meant passionate, Pamela is justified for having sharpened the razor blade. Maybe SUuz27 can clarify this.