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    how can i get my boyfriend to be more compassionate

    +4  Views: 864 Answers: 6 Posted: 12 years ago

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    I believe your boyfriend is taking you for granted, show and tell him what he is doing to you. If you don't see a change, dump him.
    Mmouse

    Good advise. You can't change anybody,they have to change themselves.
    Spaceghost

    Right on Pamela !!!!
    Chiangmai

    Pamela means business tonight! Watch out guys.
    IamPamela313

    Thanks you guys. Lots of love to ya! :-)
    It all starts with communication but his behavior might take time to change. Some people just are not aware of others pain.

    Compassion has to be in a person. If it's not there, then they're going to need a life changing experience to put it there. Do you think you can be his life changing experience? You have to matter more to him than he matters to himself to be that kind of experience for him.

    In all seriousness, I think Suz said compassionate, not passionate.  I know we all are having the Lorena Bobbitt syndrome today.  If she truly means compassionate, then I think it is perfectly normal for a young man to be less compassionate than a young woman would be.  My daughters are many times more sensitive than my son.  If Suz meant passionate, Pamela is justified for having sharpened the razor blade.  Maybe SUuz27 can clarify this.

    If you wanna be with and talk to someone who is more compassionate, than you have to talk to a woman.
    Chiangmai

    or the man at the mortuary.
    leeroy

    The claws are out, meow.

    Is he cruel to animals?



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