It sounds like she is very Defensive.

People whoare just that are Narcissistic.

They have this thing where they are always on the look out for anyone that they think is

going to accuse them of anything/everything.

They do talk out their frustrations , anger, so on on their victims.

even the 1's that are (trying) close to them.

If you are thinking about sending her to seek help!

Think again!

Narcissistic people will refuse any kind/type of help.

And if they do!

They will give it to the doc. with both barrels!!

Research has found that 3/4 of the population are men who are Narcissistic.

While the other 25% are women.

www.Narcissisum101.com

Is a site that can go into detail about it.