You have to be careful because the line between love and lust/infatuation can be very fine. If you are truly in love w/someone you share their joy and feel their pain. You would do just about anything for them but there are of course limits love should not be physically painful nor should you have to break a law for it! I think you really learn unconditional love once you become a parent. You understand then what it's like to put someone else 1st and foremost it is very challanging but also so rewarding. 

look them up online--most will have a website and for certain you could find a phone # that way

cheaper!!!