This man has abused and used me for years....I loved him desparetly.....now this on top for the last 10 years and he is still horrible, except, he does not hit anymore. No friends, family cause no one can stand to be around him. He is a total selfish, pity party. Thank you, though, for responding. I have been told by attorney's that a judge would not grant me a divorce, now, because of the M.S., but all the previous abuse might sway him. When I took my vows I did not hear anything about physical, mental and just childish abuse.