i think everyone has his/her belief...what ever their ancestors have been following...some convert and some dont...so very hard 2 convince who is right who is wrong as all were the Messengers of God and wanted people to follow certain rules ...., then Bible, Tanakh or Quran were written for these people so they could understand the different aspects of life/living....

thanks 2 all for u precious time and advices...@ Jenn wow u must be really strong to face all of them :o n yes agree with u n Cradie that poison is really dangerous around kids ...

Thank you all for your response....actually i am getting ready for it.. trying to complete my 2 year degree and then i am out of here. i want to take a stand before even taking kids and walking out...and yes Amy, Bugs , Butter i have become so strong that i stand face 2 face and say all this... once who smacked my face, for just talking back to him or even asking him to care(spend time) for his own kids :( ... i got him arrested last year for physically abusing me... he actually punched my face infront of my youngest child who got scared and started to hit him back by saying i hate you dad... the reason was my car broke down and i called him for help and he refused to come and i walked my 4 year child for miles to come back home... as he didnt give me money even so i could call a cab ...unfortunately i couldnt get help from someone :( and he beat me up coz i was upset on this... so i got a protection order for 6 months ...and eversince he just begs not to take any step...

my husband has dozens of girlfriends whom he says i love u daily... u got a reason 2 be suspicious coz he is cheating on u... why in the world wud we suspect them if we didnt find out what they were up to ;) sorry what u goin thru... just stay calm... i tell u a fact... if u show as if u dont care ... wud be more effective then investigating more about it and he wud luv 2 make u jealous or upset...

r u pregnant :p might be indigestion...., allergy from certain food ....., maalox or tums shud help both r over da counter meds ;)

i know i've severe headaches if i go out in Cold weather without hat... due to sinuses...so that triggers it...or if i leave for work without eating and have meal after 8 or 10 hours .. i have migraine and vomiting ... it wont go away... also if i have severe stress ... so there cud be any reason and different for everyone... and i am sorry 2 hear about u :( do u know what triggers it... i mean anything which comes to ur mind which wud b a possible reason :|

my suggestion to u would be change your eating habits ... see what u ate that day which triggered it... sometimes our bodies are allergic to certain foods and cud cause this... i have terrible stomach ache if i ate eggs , and wheat , although i am not allergic to either of them... as you have mentioned, stress can be a factor... so change ur lifestyle...and try to do yoga and relax urself ... might help ;) good luck ... those who think its some kind of joke please start to fart from today ROFL!

i almost forgot to ask... did u have allergy test ??? i know a friend of mine , who had wheat allergy n showed symptoms of heart burn n bloating n flatulence ;)

emmmm.... agree wid encourager wud luv 2 know a little bit more ... did u separate or ...? its kinda hard 2 answer without actual reason... when i decided to leave my husband... i told him that i wud consider u dead coz people die but life goes on ...it never ends with someone...:(

not so easy to DIVORCE ... when having kids... well i dont know what ur situation is ya dont do things that cud aggravate it more... not sayin u start to tolerate him unnecessarily but ya try to improve in ways u wud like it or he wud like things... that helps... men dont like bossy women... avoid it as much as possible... well i'm myself in that dilemma... but giving up or just walking away is never a solution but ya when its never ending then leaving is the only solution ;)

i have 2 agree with asthma that this started way before any religion originated.. but then all those prophets came to bring all sins to an end... including adultery (sex without marriage) , drinking alcohol, gambling, bribery and so many uncountable sins the society was involved at the time all the Holy Books were written by these prophets... i believe in Arab countries those who have committed adultery are supposed to be whipped 100 times before he could lead a normal life again ;) so it is definitely not going to be left unpunished , if its not punished here then hereafter....