I AM 35 I MARRIED WHEN I WAS 20 MY HUSBAND WAS 17 HE WAS PRETTY MUCH MY EVERYTHING WE HAD 3 SONS TOGETHER THE YOUNGEST DIED FROM PNEUMONIA IN 2005 WE DIVORCED IN 2006 WE WERE TOGETHER 2 YEARS BEFORE WE MARRIED SO I THOUGHT WE WERE READY WE WERE YOUNG BUT I HONESTLY LOVED THIS MAN WITH ALL MY HEART WE HAVE BEEN DIVORCED FOR 5 YEARS NOW AND I HAVE NOT TOUCHED ANOTHER MAN AND PROBABLY NEVER WILL HE MARRIED AGAIN RECENTLY IT IS NOT THAT I WOULD TAKE HIM BACK HE CHEATED ON ME TERRIBLY BAD I HONESTLY COULD NOT TELL U HOW MANY TIMES IT IS THAT I WAS RAISED TO BELIEVE THAT MARRIAGE IS A ONE TIME THING AND I CANNOT LET THAT PART GO I WAS THE FIRST AND ONLY PERSON IN MY ENTIRE FAMILY TO DIVORCE WHEN I FOUND OUT HE WAS CHEATING IT TOOK ME FOREVER TO LEAVE HIM BECAUSE I JUST BELIEVE THAT DIVORCE SHOULD BE A LAST RESORT FOR ANYONE HIS MARRIAGE WILL NOT WORK THIS TIME BECAUSE HE NEVER TOOK THE TIME TO BE ALONE THE MINUTE WE DIVORCED HE WAS WITH OTHER PEOPLE EVEN HAD A CHILD WITH ANOTHER WOMAN OTHER THAN HIS WIFE NOW AND I HONESTLY BELIEVE THERE ARE EVEN MORE CHILDREN HE CANT BE ALONE I FOUND THAT OUT THE HARD WAY WHEN WE HAD PROBLEMS AND WE WERE NOT TOGETHER FOR A LITTLE WHILE DURING OUR MARRIAGE HE COULD NOT BE ALONE HE HAS NOT EVER JUST BEEN BY HIMSELF TO TAKE TIME TO BE WITH OUR SONS ALONE OR TO BE ALONE JUST TO THINK JUST TO FIX HIMSELF HE JUST GOES FROM ONE TO THE NEXT. SO MY ADVICE TO ANYONE AFTER U DIVORCE TAKE A WHILE FIGURE THINGS OUT SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN IF U HAVE ANY FROM THE MARRIAGE BECAUSE THEY SUFFEER MORE THAN ANYONE RIGHT NOW HIS OLDEST SON CANT LOOK AT HIM HE IS SO CONFUSED AB OUT THE OTHER CHILD THE MOTHER OF THAT CHILD AND THE WIFE THAT FITS IN THAT SOMEHOW NOW AND IT IS SO SAD BUT IF HE HAD JUST STOPPED AND TAKEN TIME OUT TO BE WITH THEM THE OTHER CHILD WOULD NOT HAVE HAPPENED AND HE COULD HAVE FIXED HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS SONS BEFORE HE MET AND MARRIED HIS WIFE NOW BECAUSE HE HAS NEVER JUST EXPLAINED TO THEM WHAT IS GOING ON AND THEY THINK HE DOESNT CARE AND HONESTLY THAT IS WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE OUR CHILDREN SUFFERED FROM THIS FIX YOUR CHILDREN AFTER U DIVORCE AND THEN WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR NEEDS BECAUSE ONCE U BRING CHILDREN IN THE WORLD YOUR NEEDS SHOULD BE PUT SECOND TO THEM HIS OLDEST SON JUST SAID YESTERDAY HE IS 13- MAMA IF HE HA KIDS WITH HIS WIFE NOW THAT MEANS WE HAVE EVEN MORE HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS AND THAT IS NOT FAIR IT HONESTLY EMBARRASING HIM THAT IS MY ADVICE TO U ABOUT DIVORCE DONT FORGET ABOUT THE KIDS AND THE EX THAT U HAVE LEFT TO EXPLAIN TO YOUR KIDS THE CRAZY LIFE THAT U HAVE CHOSEN EXPLAIN IT TO THEM YOURSELF BE A MAN OR WOMAN ABOUT IT AND EXPLAIN YOUR IRRESPONSIBLE ACTIONS TO THEM YOURSELF!!!

the only one i will watch is rupaul's dragrace ya know with the drag queens i am a woman i like men so i dont know why but i am so drawn to that show the other shows with the pregnant teens the drunks with the sex problems on jersey shore and all that other junk i hate but i love that one i was flipping through the channels one nite and saw it been watching it since and most of these men are beautiful cant tell that they are men i didnt say i do or dont agree with what they do but i love the show

my father was diagnosed with colon cancer this past christmas it had gotten so far along that it is in his other organs they have given him 6 months to a year to live but he started chemo right off and the cancer cells have shrunk please i dont care if they tell u that u only have 1 day left u take the chemo and u do everything in your power to fight it we know that my dads cancer will not go away because of the chemo the cancer will eventually take his life but what we do know is that the cells are shrinking which will give him more time it could add years to his life-fight with all u have!!!

I KNOW WHAT U ARE GOING THRU I DIVORCED MY HUSBAND IN 2006 HE WAS CHEATING ON ME WITH SEVERAL DIFFERENT WOMEN WE HAVE 2 SONS TOGETHER AND EVEN AFTER THE WOMAN CALLS HIS CELL PHONE AND I ANSWER AND AFTER MY OWN BROTHER SAW THEM HE WOULD NOT ADMIT TO IT HE RECENTLY MARRIED ONE OF THEM AND I JUST FOUND OUT ONE OF THEM HAS A SON THAT IS THE SAME AGE AS OUR YOUNGEST SO I HAVE MY PROOF NOW IT WILL COME OUT I TRIED TO PROVE IT WHILE WE WERE MARRIED BECAUSE HE PUT ME THROUGH IT AND I WAS GOING TO SUE ALL OF THEM AND GET ALAMONY FROM HIM BUT MY LAWYER SAID IF U CANT PROVE IT U CANT DO A THING HE WAS CHEATING ON ME THROUGH 2 PREGNANCIES AND WE LOST OUR YOUNGEST SON TO PNEUMONIA WHEN HE WAS 3 MONTHS OLD WE WERE SEPERATED DURING MY THIRD PREGNANCY AFTER THE CHILD DIED I THOUGHT HE WOULD STRAIGHTEN UP BUT HE NEVER DID AND STILL HASNT HE TOLD HIS NEW WIFE WE DIVORCED BECAUSE WE LOST OUR SON THAT HE NEVER CHEATED ON ME I HAVE LEFT HIM ALONE MY 2 SONS REFUSE TO SEE HIM GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE U SOUND WONDERFUL WISH U WERE MINE I HATE DRAMA I LOVE SIMPLE THINGS U SOUND LIKE A WONDERFUL FATHER AND U SOUND LIKE A WONDERFUL HUSBAND I KNOW U STILL LOVE YOUR WIFE BUT SHE WILL PROBABLY NEVER ADMIT TO IT CHEATERS THINK IN THEIR MIND THAT IF THAT DONT ADMIT TO IT ITS NOT HAPPENING EVEN WHILE THEY CHEAT MY PASTOR TOLD ME THAT IT HURT ME SO BAD IT HAS BEEN 5 YEARS AND I HAVENT EVEN BEEN ON A DATE DONT DO THAT GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE BELIEVE ME SHE WILL AND ALSO WATCH HER BECAUSE PEOPLE THAT CHEAT THAT HAVE CHILDREN DO NOT CARE MUCH FOR THE CHILDRENS FEELINGS I DONT CARE WHAT THEY SAY IF THEY DID THEY WOULDNT DO IT BECAUSE DIVORCE IS HELL ON CHILDREN BLESS THEIR LITTLE HEARTS THEY NEVER GET OVER IT THEY ARE NEVER THE SAME AND IF SHE CARED FOR THE CHILDREN AND WANTED OUT OF THE MARRIAGE SHE WOULD HAVE JUST LEFT NOT BROUGHT ANOTHER MAN INTO IT TO HURT EVERYBODY=I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS I WILL PRAY FOR U AND YOUR CHILDREN

I AM A SOUTHERN BAPTIST AND I AM HERE TO TELL U THAT U CANNOT BELIEVE IN ONE AND NOT BELIEVE IN THE OTHER IT JUST DOESNT WORK THAT WAY GET A BIBLE AND READ REVELATION IT WILL TELL U ALL U NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE RETURN OF THE DEVIL AND HIS WAR WITH GOD AND THAT HE WILL BE THROWN FOR ALL EERNITY INTO THE PIT OF HELL U CANT BELIEVE IN GOD AND HEAVEN AND NOT BELIEVE IN THE DEVIL AND HELL GOD TALKS ABOUT THE DEVIL THROUGHOUT THE BIBLE HE WAS AN ANGEL WHO TRIED TO TAKE OVER AND WAS CAST OUT INTO THE PIT OF [HELL] [HELL] IS THE DEVILS HOME THE HOME FOR ALL THAT IS FILTHY IN GODS EYES [WHERE ELSE WOULD THE DEVIL LIVE]?

I AM A SOUTHERN BAPTIST THAT BELIEVES IN GOD AND I HAVE NEVER HEARD OF THIS BEFORE THIS IS NOT IN CHRISTIAN RELIGION I HAD A TUBAL PREGNANCY YEARS AGO AND HAD TO TAKE 6 UNITS OF BLOOD OR I WOULD HAVE DIED AND I DID NOT THINK TWICE ABOUT IT OR WONDER IF GOD WOULD WANT ME TO TAKE THE BLOOD THAT IS HOW GOD WORKS HIS HEALING POWERS HERE ON EARTH THRU HIS CHOSEN PEOPLE

does this mean that all honest men are from australia i love to hear them talk i think that french men are honest also i honestly think it is where we live that influences the men in america to be the way they are the way sex is portrayed here it is everywhere if 13 year olds are virgins now they are considered abnormal normal here is no morals 5 and 6 divorces 2 kids with one woman 1 with another a couple kids with your new girlfriend 2 or 3 with your old girlfriend and it goes on and on we have made it this way we sell nothing in america now without sex being involved even shampoo commercials have gotten out of hand lies are all part of lack of morals