justsad
A couple of days ago I went to a party and met a couple there. In my drunken haze, we really hit it off and I feel I became very friendly with both of them.
Communication carried on with both of them after the party, however particularly the girl. This was all fine until recently she inboxed me talking about her dead relationship and I in turn was very sweet with her. She kept on saying how she didn't think that her and this boy would be going out for long and how much she appreciated having me to talk to, also asking for my number.
Here comes my predicament; would it be ok to form a relationship with this girl should her relationship with this boy boy breaks down?
On one hand, although i wouldn't particulary pick her out as someone I am madly attracted to, i do get on well with her and she is attractive.
However, on the other is it wrong to rush straight to the arms of a girl who's just broken up with her boyfriend, espeically, when the boy in question is so nice. Also I haven't truly known this girl too long, how can i say a relationship would be worth its trouble?
Answers much appreciated :D
10 Answers
pythonlover
Best answer!
| 12 years ago. Rating: 6 | |
Chiangmai
What would you say to your sister who behaved in the same manner that the subject girl did while at the party? If you wouldn't approve of such behavior on your own sister, why would you go for someone like this one? It's not a matter of horsing around with her. It's a matter of if she got pregnant, what would you do?
| 12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
Shootah
You might want to consider how she is treating this other boy, by trying to start something up with you before she has broken things off with him. It's quite likely that she could do that very same thing to you a little later on. There are just some people out there, who seem to think the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence...and they just keep doing that! When you're young, life is full of all kinds of lessons that don't come out of a book.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 8 | |
IamPamela313
dad59
Mmouse
It is difficult to have a meaningful conversation when under the influence, how do you remember what you talked about? There is an old country song that talks about "all the girls get pretty at closing time."
If she doesn't respect the guy she is dating and wants to move right on to you do you think she is trustworthy and worth the effort?
I have never heard of a good relationship that starts out with people under the influence.
What happened to dating? Why do you wonder about a relationship?
(is relationship code for friends with priviliges?) I suggest you let this situation go...go far, far away.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
daren1
Colleen
Build a friendship with her first then see how it goes. She needs to end it with her boyfriend before she can even think about another person anyway. Relationships should not be rushed.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
Deathboy
kidder
