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    how can i hear people speak bad about me, without being angry?

    i really need to know before i beat or smashed someone.

    +1  Views: 564 Answers: 6 Posted: 12 years ago

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    hi Princess one deep breath dont get to close to hearing the gossip the way I think if they are talking about you then they are leaving the other person alone look at it as apositive angle and rememeber sticks and stone break my bones but names can never hurt me good luck
    carmaxable

    oh, but dear, words can hurt
    Well, Princess you must be worth talking about. You must be interesting and they are jealous. Walk away. I know it's hard,but it's the best thing to do. Find some nice friends. Someone told me this once: treat your friends as if they could become your enemy, and treat your enemies as if they could become your friend.
    Princess, assuming your an adult. Who ever is talking about you, or started a rumor about you should should be dealt with forcefully. Amazing how quickly rumors subside once the instigator's face is swollen. Good luck.
    mycatsmom

    not good advice.
    ed shank

    Works for me. Bad advise? Then stop bitching. Hug them into being civil to you.
    In life, you will find some people who need to put someone down, to either make themself look good, or try to feel good about themself. I am not saying it is right, but it happens...that's life!
    If there is a kernel of truth in whatever they said, perhaps this is an opportuniy to examine what you are doing or how you are acting in that person's presence. But, if not, nothing shuts a bigmouth up like asking them to clarify their statements about you. It's an opportunity to correct that!
    Usually people who are listening to someone do that to someone else, don't respect that kind of behavior. If they respect that kind of back biting...you are hanging with the wrong kind of crowd.
    mycatsmom

    When stuff like this happens in the work place, you stiil have to '' hang out with them ''....b/c you have to work with the A Holes.
    Shootah

    I think she needs to confront the ringleader. It doesn't have to be in an aggresive way, but there at least needs to be some communication. I don't know why these people are doing what they are. But, it sounds as though they are purposely letting her overhear things. It makes me wonder why, and it makes me wonder what their motives are in doing it. Every story has two sides to it.
    they are obivously misinformed,ignore them.
    IamPamela313

    Congratulations, 10,000!
    Confront the people that are doing this to you and tell them you don't appreciate their comments and tell them if they have nothing nice to say,then dont say anything at all.Violence may escalate the problem,keep calm.


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