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My partner and I have a wonderful, caring relationship. We are very close, get on extremelly well and have loads of fun together. Lately however he has started paying alot of attention to a good girlfriend of mine - so much so it is becoming embarrassing. I have spoken to him about it but he claims he isnt aware of doing it and says I am imagining things. I am not a naturally jealous person but this situation is making me feel very unsure of our relationship and his motivations. My friend laughs
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6dogs4us
Tell him to shape up or ship out. If you two are so close, he'll comprehend what you are saying and do something about it - and also apologize. If not, maybe it's time for you to start looking elsewhere for a meaningful relationship. Sometimes these things come in the backdoor and leave you standing there like a fool after it's too late. If he values your relationship as much as you do, he will care that he is hurting your feelings.
Ann
| 12 years ago. Rating: 14 | |
I agree, Very good anwer.
Flip
It concerns me that your friend laughs. How sure are you that she is a "good" girlfriend?
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| 12 years ago. Rating: 12 | |
Well, I havent really wanted to go down that road as I want to be able to trust both of them. She is a known flirt and loves attention, also tends to be attracted to attached men - ha! Recipie for disaster right? In the beginning she used to flirt with him but lately I have noticed she has changed her approach towards him and is rather cool and off-hand. This just seems to encourage him.
ed shank
My life long friend has been trying to get into my wife's pants since we were teenagers. I chuckle inside. My wife has always known as well. I trust her totally. I did say something to him many many years ago. If you haven't hit it yet, give it up, she's not interested. He's still at it.
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ed shank
| 12 years ago. Rating: 11 | |
Ha! Good for your wife! I cant help but wonder what my partner would do if my friend responded favourably. She did used to flirt with him but has stopped. Perhaps this is why he is behaving like a dog on heat!
I wouldn't get looney tunes over this. Maybe he needs acknowledgment that he is still a virile macho guy. Perhaps trying to instill a little jealousy in you? If your relationship is intact, don't sweat it. Next time he behaves badly, bark at him Ruf, Ruf.
Jenn
The girlfriend laughing makes me uncomfortable... Flirt or not she is a girl and knos how you feel when you are insecure. unless she has something to hide she needs to take your feeling to heart. Let your man know that you want it to stop. Not that you dont like it.
eloninete
| 12 years ago. Rating: 11 | |
thats realy true how many girfriends broke up marriage , get away from her or she will get away with your husband
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digger
When you say "...paying alot of attention (to her)..." , can you be more specific ?
Are they engaging in 45-minute hugs? Is he engaging in conversation with her whereas he never did before ? Tell "Doctor Digger" what's really going on.
Chiangmai
Are they engaging in 45-minute hugs? Is he engaging in conversation with her whereas he never did before ? Tell "Doctor Digger" what's really going on.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 7 | |
Did the drool separate itself from his face? You need to measure the distance the drool hangs. Anything over 8 inches is suspicious.
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mycatsmom
Something is fishy here. When men say , '' I'm not aware that I'm doing it ''.....that just means that he's trying to fend off the charges adn the arguement. And when men start yelling and swearing at you that ''YOU'RE JEALOUS !!! "
That's his way of not being accountable for his actions.
Even if you're not jealous,it's still very annoying that he's a big flirt, adn that he's paying so much attention to your g.friend. I would first of all, dump your g.friend, then secondly....get counceling together ASAP. If he won't go to counceling, then you go. If after you dump her, and you find out he calls her and goes to see her, then somethings really going on !
That's his way of not being accountable for his actions.
Even if you're not jealous,it's still very annoying that he's a big flirt, adn that he's paying so much attention to your g.friend. I would first of all, dump your g.friend, then secondly....get counceling together ASAP. If he won't go to counceling, then you go. If after you dump her, and you find out he calls her and goes to see her, then somethings really going on !
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
itsmee
Get some new panties and then be all embarrased when he sees them. Make a mysterious note that he'll see. Get some new perfume. Call him by the wrong name you know when ... don't get the name all the way out. Stare off into space and say "Do you ever think of stars and rainbows ... (or something like that) It's the far away look that you're going for. Find a romantic song. Play it over many times. (One he doesn't like)
I'm talkin' jealousy here. I'm talkin' feminine wiles like the southern girls still use. my daughter in law is southern.
Do not ever let him see you sweat, dear.
I'm talkin' jealousy here. I'm talkin' feminine wiles like the southern girls still use. my daughter in law is southern.
Do not ever let him see you sweat, dear.
| 12 years ago. Rating: 5 | |
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