Shattuck

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Should I date my best friend

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+3 Views: 1171 Answers: 12 Posted: 15 years ago

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ed shank

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If you do they won't be your best friend any longer, I'm assuming you will become intimate. You will have lost a friend, and gained nothing.

15 years ago. Rating: 2
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TSC

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As soon as you have SEX with your "best friend" the RULES WILL CHANGE. Suddenly all the things you LOVED about your "FRIEND" will become ANNOYING and REPETITIVE when your LOVERS.

I'm not even going to mention meeting the PARENTS.

RUN FOR THE HILLS!

15 years ago. Rating: 2
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IamPamela313

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What do you mean "date" as a going out date or "date" getting to know each other better?

15 years ago. Rating: 1
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Shattuck

like date getting to know eatch other

commented 15 years ago

IamPamela313

how long have you been friends

commented 15 years ago

Shattuck

we knew eatch other for 1 year

commented 15 years ago

IamPamela313

Seems like the perfect way to find your soul mate. Good luck :-)

commented 15 years ago

Shattuck

ya right

commented 15 years ago

monkey11

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I noticed your comment about being scared to ask him out on Monday...maybe you need to wait until you are really sure that this is what you want? Or, if you are really sure already, just take a deep breath and go for it!

15 years ago. Rating: 1
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suliz

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If your life partner is NOT your best friend too, it won't last a lifetime.

If you mean you are not quite that serious yet, think hard about what it might mean to lose a friend if friendship is all he or she wants.

15 years ago. Rating: 1
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Shattuck

ok thanxs i get it

commented 15 years ago

suliz

Good :-)

Thank you for coming back to tell me.

commented 15 years ago

Shattuck

it ok so

commented 15 years ago

daren1

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not if you want to keep him/her as your best friend

15 years ago. Rating: 0
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Shattuck

but i like him more then a friend

commented 15 years ago

daren1

then yes it would be alrigt to date ,take it slow, dont rush into any thing

commented 15 years ago

Shattuck

i wasnt going to

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ed shank

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The friendship with my wife eventually blossomed into a love relationship, but this is so weird and rare. Different times and morays.

15 years ago. Rating: 0
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Headless Man

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No one ask how old you are, you sound real young and if you are don't be in a hurry to date. It's hard to break up when you find someone else you like and someone may have an eye on you and they will not ask if your dating.

15 years ago. Rating: 0
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Darci13

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I think the best relationships are the ones that started out with being and becoming best friends and even dating and if eventually marrying still being each other's best friend.

15 years ago. Rating: 0
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ole hipster

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Did that once years ago....kind of ruined a good friendship when we realized we were not meant to be a couple...guess you just have to go with your instincts on this one..and of course it depends upon how your best friend feels about dating you!