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    It seems at the end of every friendship I have had in my adult life ends whith out a word.... Just a sudden silence. I am the kind of person that will say look this is the deal... Why is it easier for so many other ppl to just walk away?

    0  Views: 1139 Answers: 6 Posted: 7 years ago
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    Gave you a t.u., You reminded me of what I left out; The back stabbing, especially at the workplace.
    I have trusted people at previous jobs only later to find out the minute you turn your back they are talking about you.


    You can't let it get you down, just keep thinking about all of the good things in your life, it's easy to become negative and weighed down. You have to rise above all the jealousy and backstabbing or just the users and just look forward to the new and better friends you will make now that you've learned some difficult lessons.


    If you get stuck in the negative thought, it can establish habits in your brain and you will think that way more often. Catch yourself, and dwell on the good and positive. Thanks Jenn because this also helps me to remember to remain in the positive.

    I hear you, I have always had friends for a lifetime not friends for right now. There are different kinds of people out there that just don't value friendship like some of us do. To them it is what or how can I benefit from my association with this person. Sometimes work friendships are like this the moment you move to a new job you never hear from your old co-workers anymore.


    They say that if you have one handful of close friends in your life, you are a lucky person. I agree with this, so few friends are real and stick with you through thick and thin. That is the way of the world I suppose. Don't let it get you down, just be the friend people can count on.


    Some people are givers and others are takers, hope you make some new lasting friendships, best wishes, leeroy.

    I am not down about it.. I just like to be open and honest... IF i have something to say I say it if I am done I let you know. I just feel like ppl are so .... "sneaky" (for lack of a better word). I dont think it is me making them that way I just think they are... .Where did all the striaght up ppl go?

    DONT THINK ON IT TOO MUCH .WHEN WE WERE KIDS LIFE WAS A LOT SIMPLER.PEOPLE TODAY LIVES ARE SPINNING OUT OF CONTROL.THE PEOPLE YOU ARE SPEAKING OF STILL CARE FOR YOU THEY JUST DONT HAVE THE TIME FOR YOU AS BAD AS IT SOUNDS.JUST OPEN YOURSELF TO NEW FRIENDS AND MOVE ON.

    True friends tolerate will your shortcomings, and make an effort to see you. Acquaintances won't. Reevaluate what they really were.

    All one can do is if they had said or did something wrong apologize and if that does not work you have to let go and move on for I would think that really and truly perhaps was not a true friendship in the first place.



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