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    Is (s)he is cheating on you?

    1. Hanging out with a work friend at the gym every other night while you stay home with your child (plural "you")


    2. Has told you point blank "I hate you" "I am moving out" and has been increasingly hostile...also drinking more


    3. Has told your son "Mommy and Daddy are fighting too much. They have decided that one is going to move to a different house". (You have never fought!)


    4. Work/Gym friend is helping with the move.


    5. One of you sleeps on the couch.


    What do you think? What advice would you give when asked?


    (Disclaimer: not about anyone in my family)


     

    +4  Views: 1721 Answers: 5 Posted: 3 years ago

    5 Answers

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    ROMOS

    We have never dined, yet.
    Clonge

    @Romos: Is that at invitation?

    ....if you can't find trust, look out


    ....no trust, no chance

    Bob/PKB

    Not very helpful, but thank you

    What about this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8x5cUFoDnU

    Bob/PKB

    Not very helpful
    Clonge

    Sorry. If my wife came home with lipstick on her collar, I'd be thinking that she might want to leave me for a woman. That would make me feel worse than if it was for another man! LOL!
    Bob/PKB

    Yes, it would be a double whammy.
    mycatsmom

    I would feel better if my husband left me for a man than a woman. That is just a hypothetical situation .

    I would guess that at some point it’s time to cut the losses and move on. Read HOW TO SURVIVE THE LOSS OF A LOVE and start healing. Be your own best friend and love when it counts.....

    Bob/PKB

    I'm just a sounding board on this for the victim's mother. You know I have no patience for infidelity. :(
    jhharlan

    I do. And neither should she. But mom? This is your daughters business, be a sounding board but otherwise butt out....
    Bob/PKB

    He...my friend's son is the victim.
    She doesn't offer him advice. She expresses her concerns to me.
    jhharlan

    Mama’s role sounds trying. Poor thing.....
    Bob/PKB

    Rough times...
    mycatsmom

    I read that when I was gong through a broken romance in the 80s

    I hope marriage or couple counseling might help them.. :(



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