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    How does one make peace after a fight, especially when the are sure they are right?

    I’m a proud, proud person. It interferes with what I want to be……….


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    Tell the person we will have to agree to disagree (don't mention he/she is wrong and you are correct).  Explain to this person how much their  friendship means to you and apologize for arguing (apologizing to someone doesn't mean you are admitting to being wrong). Then suggest that you both forgive each other, don't bring the issue up again and move forward.

    jhharlan

    Oh, I moved all right.....

    ....ice cream, works with/for me.

    We shall fight them in the fields,we shall fight them on the beaches,we shall NEVER surrender!!!


    (Or somethin' like that) Courtesy Winston Churchill.

    terryfossil 1

    Never Surrender Tom,??????? he was happy to surrender Australia to the Japanese,..he knew how to surrender, as long as it was not him..Have a read of this Tom,Briton decided to cut us loose,America decided it was important to keep us..>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<..http://www.pacificwar.org.au/battaust/Britain_betrays_Australia.html
    Tommyh

    Dead right Terry.He was an a$$hole.Not one of my heroes.
    Tommyh

    We've heard of the "Brisbane Line" where they were prepared to give the Japanese everything north of Briz Vegas.

    Time ...

    Well, if giving in to someone who thinks (s)he is right is your M.O., that's probably what you will end up doing.


    Conceding (s)he is right and you are wrong (again), contritely, humbly, maybe even saying you don't know how you could have been so stupid as to disagree with someone who is always right, should do the trick.


    Of course, there will still be a couple of days while (s)he lords it over you, just to rub it in. 


    That's how you make peace with someone who thinks (s)he is right. 


    If you are truly convicted with your belief, then you don't bother acquiescing to the other person, unless that relationship is more important than your personal integrity.  Go about your business, don't offer communication opportunities, and pretty soon, that person could be out of your life. You have been through this before today.


    While it is always nicer to get along with people, when you find yourself constantly compromising your values and beliefs, maybe it's nicer to check out of that relationship.  It's not as hard as it sounds, says the voice of experience.

    jUST KISS AND MAKE UP ,EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE BLOODY WRONG ,YOU SILLY TWAT€,

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