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    When a man dates a woman for the first time, who should pick up the tab? What did you do, if you've had one?

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    I always like to pay, ask any of my past wives, I'm sure they'll all be very complimentary ;)

    Clonge

    I want to ask your CURRENT one!
    ROMOS

    Emmm? Emmmmmmm!!!!! Ok, I think I remember where the key is......................give me a minute or two, I'm sure she'll be with us soon.
    country bumpkin

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    I think if a man asks a woman out on a first date he should pay and if a woman asks a man out on the first date she should pay.

    I think that whoever has the highest income should pay....for eternity!    :)


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    What's love got ta' do with it?????????????

    Bob/PKB

    I had more income than my ex. I think living off me for 16 years is enough. Now he is sitting pretty. Do you think he should reimburse me (with interest)? I would love to see that.
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Yes! Too bad you couldn't collect. :(
    Bob/PKB

    I guess not having to wake up to his halitosis on a daily basis should be payment enough...
    Ducky

    Moderator
    :( and :)

    Who ever asked the other out should pay the tab! I didn't realize this was even questioned!

    Ducky

    Moderator
    I don't mind dining alone! :)

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    Steve Harvey always harps about the man paying for everything (ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN). Sounds good to me but I’ve never ever actually been asked out on a date……...

    Generally if a man ask a woman out, i think he's thinking about paying.  and i think the woman thinks he's going to pay too, particularly if he asked for the date. but i agree with ducky, the person with the highest income should think about paying, male or female.  if they have great communications, they can talk about it  if they are compatible, they will probably agree on things pretty good. but i also agree with clu . . . 'if you ask, you should pay.'

    As a man,I would pay,but I'm pretty old fashioned.I think it's more common to go Dutch these days.

    Ducky

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    I thought you were Australian?!
    Tommyh

    LOL. I told you I was old fashioned! What's the term they use these days?
    (Valtzing Matilda,Valtzing matilda,You vill come a Valtzing Matilda vis me.)
    Ducky

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    As you enter the restaurant, he says, "Can you pay for your own tonight? My pay check didn't come in". Maybe...."last date"? haha

    If a guy asked me to go to dinner or a movie, a game or even bowling, I would expect his plan to include paying for it.  HE asked.   If I offer the tip or buy the popcorn, I think that's OK, too.  But, I would let the man reach for his wallet, since the invitation was his to me.



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