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    My daughter in law & I fell out, how can I get her to forgive me?

    All I really know about her is that she is an only child & that my son (somewhat a mama's boy or use to be) loves her very much! they meet in the airforce where they were stationed in Shreveport l.a.   also where they reside & i'm in S.C.  I have prayed for him to find someone & marry, which he swore he would never do. It's a pretty long & confusing story but in an attempt to sum it up, I went to stay & help them out when my new grandson was 2 mons. she also has a 3yr. old. This was the second time we had ever met but I'm the type that don't meet a stranger so it was to be a piece of cake NOT! even though I didn't want to admit it, her, her family, plain & simple her whole life & being was better than anything I could ever dream up! Of course I tried to play it off but she just didn't like me from the jump!  The only thing it could be was, that I wasn't up to her standards & I really wanted her to except me! Instead after i'm there for about 21/2 weeks ( pretty much watching the boys 24/7 but loved it) & after being up with the baby all night (just like every night) Early that last morning she came down stairs & ask was I sleeping with him on the couch. I first said no because I had laid him down long before plus she took me by surprise & all of a sudden she started screaming at me, calling me all sorts of names! It was though as if I were in the twlight zone!!! I couldn't believe my eyes or ears, she demanded I leave her house, so I did just that thinking it would blow over but now Avery is 11/2 & they have a new baby girl! According to my son, she will probably never forgive me ( I did have a few words to say that i can't take back) I sent her a message today on facebook, begging her to forgive me & praying we can put this behide us if only for the kids & my son but somehow I don't think she is going to budge!! PLEASE SOMEONE, ANYONE PLEASE HELP   I DYING TO SEE MY GRANDBABYS GROW UP & SEE MY SON"S FACE IN THE PROCESS

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    she was inappropriate and out of control and rude.

    Sounds lke she was the one in the wrong, after all you did for them you have no reason to appologise to her, why should you.  I would tell your son how she treated and spoke to you, and tell him you will not accept it from her again. Don't let her bully you.

    Speak to your son about her attitude towards you, maybe she is giving him a hard time too. She could of been suffering with post natal depression after the birth of the baby. It's such a shame you don't get to see your grandchildren. Surely your son wouldn't begrudge you of seeing the grandkids, or would he ?

    I wonder ... Could she be bipolar? Did she forget her medication? 


    I knew a woman who had that diagnosis. Everything was fine but when she went into an angry phase she looked big ... bigger than her reality and LOUDER. Her appearance changed. She was usually pretty and well groomed but she turned and looked ... like she belonged on the street or something.  Do not tell her or your son what I said. It would just make matters worse.


     For me nothing happened. I just left the scene and never saw her again. I'll always wonder. I don't think it was me because nothing like that had ever happened before.


    Your pain must be devastating.  Hang in there.  

    itsmee

    People with bi polar are just fine as long as they take their medication. I never saw her again because I left the area.


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