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    will the man im with ever love me

    tell me now

    0  Views: 788 Answers: 6 Posted: 13 years ago

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    That is a very "telling" question. If you have to ask, then you already know. What you should be asking is, "Am I willing to live like this forever, or do I deserve better"?

    Vinny

    Or ~does 'he' deserve better~ Quite possible he is the one doing a favor by hanging around.
    Ducky

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    HE didn't ask the question. SHE did.
    Vinny

    True but still its a one sided question that facts on both sides need to be looked into.
    Ducky

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    Hey Vinny...I'm a moderator not a psychiatrist! :)

    Sorry kiddo.If he doesn't love you now he never will. He will just get use to you & when he finds someone who suits his taste better he will move on & leave you in a mess.Sorry to be so brutal,but my experiences seeing this with other people tells me this is what you have in store.Probably better to end it now while you still have the strength to deal with it.In any case,I wish you well.Good luck.

    On the other side of that coin is "Will he love me forever?"  Neither is a question that evolves from a healthy relationship.

    Probably not! Does he pay the bills? Can you get along without him? You can't make someone love you!  You can choose if the relationship is enough for now.

    If this was a question presented to the Judge, he/she would want to know and understand they other side of the story.  I am all for offering my opinions in situations like this but this is a one sided case.  What is his side?? Why is he also torturing himself by staying around when there is no feelings??  You must search your situation from both sides.  Are you rich?? is he staying around because you support him??  Or is he doing you a favor by supporting you??  lets not be so quick with one sided solutions.

    Bob/PKB

    The contributor doesn't say (s) he loves him, though. The plot thickens.
    Ducky

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    @Bob...Aha! Good observation. I think maybe YOU should be the psychiatrist! lol
    Bob/PKB

    Only if I can lay on the couch!
    Ducky

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    Why not? lol

    this answered my question if i have to ask i should know but after two years i only hoped 

    ROMOS

    Better to move on.


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