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    what should i do when i am nervous in front of someone? neep help ;)

    +3  Views: 1095 Answers: 8 Posted: 7 years ago
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    I think all of us have experienced getting nervous in front of someone.  My thought is try to forget about yourself and think and/or admire something about the person that you like.  If you're in talkig distance, maybe you could ask them a question.  Or maybe just make a comment about the weather.  "NIce Day". A lot of people clam up when its someone they feel attracted to.  But take a few breaths, and if appropriate say something to them to break the ice.  Good luck!

    tabber

    Sorry about this big writing. I think I hit a wrong key.
    Colleen

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    Fixed :)
    Jannatun

    it's ok.. but it is really good advice..

    depending on what you are nervous about..a spot of dutch courage to get you over the hump..

    Colleen

    Moderator
    Depending on how old Jannatun is too.
    Jannatun

    lol collen i am 11 years old
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Too young for dutch courage then ;)

    Just relax chill out, remember they are just another human being like you and me.

    hector5559

    yea,right im,going to face up to them,and tell them you will them a good seeing too,if they annoy me,

    Think of them completely nude in front of you,with only thier socks on,

    hector5559

    On the other hand do not think of this for to long a time,in case it arousals unusal feelings
    Jannatun

    thanks
    lindilou

    ROFL !!! hahahahahahahaha! I heart you hec...;)

    I am betting this is someone you like a lot. Focus on him/her and listen, nodding often. Consider the person


     may be equally nervous around you, so a friendly smile and attitude will help both of you.


    If it is a boss, teacher,  or other "superior", just be courteous, maintain eye contact, and remember you're a valuable person. 

    hector5559

    I dont like to say,Blush,Gulp.
    Jannatun

    you are right Bob..

    Just sing the ABC's in your head and think that they are in their underwear :)

    Jannatun

    lol.. u think it could work..

    I usually get in back of that person.

    I kind of like to think of everybody naked. I find it relieves my tension lol. 



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