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    why do people who say they love you treat you so bad?

    0  Views: 644 Answers: 4 Posted: 13 years ago

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    Saying "I love you" is easy. The way a person treats you, is the way to know if you are truly loved. Get away from people who don't treat you well.

    Treating someone badly is not love. Sometimes things are mistaken for love that are not love at all, at all. Infatuation, desire, attraction, obsession, being turned on,delusions, projections, imaginings, these are what they are and nothing more. They are not love that's for certain.  When you accept bad treatment from anyone it is like setting yourself up for more. If you are in an abusive situation in any way..you must make some hard decisions in life that require you to perhaps leave the relationship because abuse is not love at all friend. Peace.

    I treat everyone as I would like to be treated. If my actions draw complaints then I would have to be treating others as lab rats….aka abusing others by pressing all of their buttons looking for different result. It is much simpler to strap yourself into a chair and attach electrodes to your ears and the button that produces electrical shock in the hands of your friends. Then have a chat, when you say something they don’t like, they can press the button. That way you get to learn by your own mistakes and they get a sick thrill watching you squirm about in pain when they press the button. How cool is that! 

    Can you give us a few examples of your bad treatment ?

    Ducky

    Moderator
    Good point.
    digger

    Kids have a tendency to occasionally feel like their parents don't treat them very well. Just a hunch.
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Agree.


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