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    What is a way to feel better about your mom dating?

    just curious...

    +1  Views: 663 Answers: 3 Posted: 11 years ago
    jhharlan

    I didn't deserve the vote down for my opinion. Sounds like I'm not the only one to think that way. Take it back!
    Brittainica

    Sorry, I honestly didn't mean that, I'll take it back.

    3 Answers

    Allow her the chance to be loved. If you love her, then you will want her to be loved by someone other than just you. IF however anyone she dates makes you feel uneasy because of the way he looks at you or talks to you, make sure you mention it to your mother in a reasonable manner and not in  a manner that shows you just want to break them up so you do not have to share your mother. In other words, make sure what you feel is real and not try to invent things just to break them up. 

    Brittainica

    Thanks Colleen, that helped. :)

    You are being selfish. How would you like it if your mom told you that you couldnt date when your older because she doesnt want to share you?Give your mom your blessing and don't make her feel guilty.

    Brittainica

    I was just trying to find something that would cheer me up. It just makes me uneasy that she's dating. I also don't want her all to myself. I was just trying to find something that would make me happier about it, get my mind off of it, cuz its really hard to do that.
    jhharlan

    She voted me down for saying basically the same thing.....
    pythonlover

    Moderator
    What is it that is making you feel uneasy?Are you scared that your mom will get emotionally hurt?Or do you have concerns for your own safety/wellbeing whilst there is a male figure present.Have a talk with your mom about your concerns.

    Get over it. You mom is a person, too with needs. You aren't her center of the world anymore, good for her!!

    Brittainica

    You don't have to be such a jerk. I was just asking a question trying to find something to make me happy about it. I'm happy my mom's happy, but I still feel real uneasy about it...
    jhharlan

    No right to vote me down and I wasn't being a jerk. You're just being over-sensitive. What I wrote was no different from the others.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    I have to say Julie, this is a bit harsh to say to a child.


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