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HOW DO KEEP MY CHILDREN OUT OFMY THINGS I LOCK IT THE BUST IN HIDE IN CAR STEALS KEYS AND GET IN IT NO RESPECT AND WAS NOT RAISED TO STEAL OR BE RUDE

I AM A SINGLE MOM WORKING FULL TIME AND GOING TO SCHOLL IHAVE PLEADED BRIBBED THREATED PUNISHED ;WHIPPED HOLLARED THEY HAVE NO FATHER NEVER HAVE I HAVE NO MAN IN MY LIFE TILL RECEANTLY HE I S VERY GOOD WITH THEM BUT NOT STRICT CAN SOME SUGGEST SOMETHING I HAVE HAD TO GO ON NERVE PILLS AGAIN AND DONT WANT TO HAVE TO DDEPEND ON A PILL TO CALM DOWN THEY SEEN ME GET BEAT

AND ALSO FIGHT BACK BUT NOW THEY ARE DOING THE SAME TO ME I DONT TREAT PEOPLE THAT WAY NEVER HAVE SO WHY need help PLEASE !!!!

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0 Views: 1780 Answers: 4 Posted: 11 years ago

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PLEASE EXCUSE MY MISSPELLED WORDS I AM REALLY UPSET AND HAVE TO LEAVE THE COMPUTER NPW BECAUSE THEY ARE FIGHTING AND IF DONT THEY H URT EACHOTHER AND I DONT WANNA CALL THE POLICE AGAIN I NEED SOME ANSWERS OR SUGGESTIONS I AM AMESS..

ALL THOUGH IT HAS CROSSED MY MIND TO SELL THEM AND HAVE EVEN THREATED IT I COULD NEVER . I HAD A2 COUNSELERS IN MKY HOME 3 TIMES A WEEK TO EVALUATE THEM AND AFTER IT WAS ALL SAID AND DONE THEY TOLD MY CHILDREN THAT MY PARENTING WAS GREAT AND IF THEY DID NOT STOP HARRASING ME AND ACTING UP THEY WOULD REMOVE THEM AND TO CALL THRE POLICE WHEN THEY CARRIED ON SO I DID AND THE POLICE DIDNT DO ANYTHING AT ALL ;( NOBODY WANT TO HELP JUST SAY IM NOT DOING MY JOB I NEED SOME HELP WITH THESE KIDS AS FAR MAKING THEM UNDERSTAND THAT ARE GONNA BE SOCIAL OUTCAST THEY ALREADY GET MADE FUN OF THE WAY THEY CARRY ON HARDLY ANY FRIENDS MY FRIENDS EVEN AVOID COMING BY WHEN THEY ARE HOME

Commented 11 years ago

Colleen

You need to get a grip. These kids are out of control and it's not going to be easy to get them under control. You need professional help not advice from a free forum. You are the parent. You let them get this bad. It's all on you sister. Find a way or give them up.

Commented 11 years ago

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millie111

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Start "borrowing" your kids things!...I usually start on their chocolate..and progress to thieir ipods/laptops,clothes etc....then park yourself in their bedrooms and treat their belongings as if they are your own!...They`ll soon get the message!;-0

11 years ago. Rating: 6
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ROMOS

You should know!
:-)

commented 11 years ago

millie111

Oh I do ROMOS!;-)...I do!...works best on teens..i find!!;-)

commented 11 years ago

millie111

lol ...Muvvver of the year here!...you soon learn how to play them at their own games!:-)

commented 11 years ago

ROMOS

A growl usually did it for me, but mine were never really that bad fortunately.

commented 11 years ago

millie111

All I want for Xmas is a recording of the famous ROMOS growl!;-)...If it works..you could patent it!:-0

commented 11 years ago

ROMOS

Even worked with my dogs, it was behind the couch as soon as R growled......LOL

commented 11 years ago

millie111

LOL R.but you`re talking dogs!..I`m talking feral kids!;-))

commented 11 years ago

ROMOS

The growl handled my kids too, but I can get serious when needed.
:-)

commented 11 years ago

pythonlover

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It sounds like your kids have psychological / behavioural problems. Have you had them assessed by a mental health practitioner ?You yourself, and the kids may need family therapy which involves counselling, they can offer you strategies on how to deal with troublesome children.

11 years ago. Rating: 5
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millie111

Thanks for your input python..but just kidding with ROMOS!!...Nothing that a ROMOS growl can`t fix!

commented 11 years ago

doolittle

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You are in a very difficult situation. However, it is Not OK to take your belongings- especially your car keys! It is Not OK to act up so much that you call the police. The kids are little hellions at this point and must get a kick out of seeing you so upset and distraught. I would call their school(s) and ask to talk to their guidance counselor(s). Explain to them the kids behaviors at home and ask if they have a referal to a good family counselor OR call the counselor that came to your home and ask that person to help you. Good Luck!

11 years ago. Rating: 5
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Colleen

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Sell them. I personally would not keep such children. This is where I would draw the line on unconditional love and sell them. The circus will buy them.