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In my opinion, you should not send a gift. I doubt your ex daughter-in-law and her new husband want to be reminded of her ex husband or his family each time they look at or use a wedding gift that has come from her ex husbands family.

12 years ago. Rating: 7
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Sure. If you were close enough to her to need to ask, I would send something as long as it is not your intention to make her feel bad for not inviting you. Furthermore, it seems as if you have already decided it is the right thing to do, but don't forget to keep your son's feelings in mind.

Pray I'm right,

MB

12 years ago. Rating: 3
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No, you don't , cuz your weren't invited. You would send one if you were invited, and you couldn't make it to the wedding.

 

12 years ago. Rating: 2
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That is a very nice thought.  If you choose to send a gift i might chose one from a registry or get something simle like a picture frame or wine glasses.

12 years ago. Rating: 2
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No...she wants to move on and not being invited is telling you that.

Let her get on with her new life.

12 years ago. Rating: 1
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