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    Can I have one girlfriend

    0  Views: 631 Answers: 5 Posted: 11 years ago

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    You should always ever have only one girlfriend. 

    Vinny

    What ever happened to 'play the field'. ??
    Colleen

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    One at a time, play the field.
    Vinny

    Correct myself.. 'Play the field' meaning not to 'lock up' or as we said in my day. "going steady' with. Certainly if a guy commits to 'a' girl then he's obligated by trust to be with her and no one else. 'Play the field' meaning have fun, go out with many as you can and experience different personalities, likes and dislikes until you find that 'one' that fits.
    Strange that when we go to a shoe store we can try out many shoes before we buy it, yet in searching for a soul mate, you are looked down on for trying different mates.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    So go out as friends, no sex, just getting to know a girl to decide who is the one that seems most suited to you. To me, sex is something you do only with the one you commit to. That's where I was coming from in my answer.
    Vinny

    Agreed--- But difficult to adhere to :) nature has a way of getting in the way of morals from time to time. It happens. :) To the best of us.
    Colleen

    Moderator
    Personally I myself would find it difficult to be with someone who slept around.
    Vinny

    Yeah, I know what you mean-- Guys for the most part are different, especially when young and the primal instincts are at its strongest. (Hormonal critical mass) Guys just want to 'get it on'. anywhere, anybody, anytime... As we get older though the hormones become more balanced and we simmer down and look for a life-mate- It all ends then.

    I'm sorry.But our minimum quota is 3.You will just have to try a little harder.Ask you wife.maybe she can suggest a couple of names.


    Disclainer:- If this answer makes no sense refer to your question.It's in the same categorie.

    All of my girlfriends are friends with each other.

    You can have as many girlfriends that you can keep up with -- Before you get caught.

    robertgrist

    I harbor no secrets worth keeping or repeating.

    Not many are going to tell you "NO, you can't have ONE girlfriend!" 
    The gray area becomes when you want to have multiple girlfriends simultaneously.
    Personally, I don't want to be part of a harem.  

    millie111

    :-)...Hmmm..I`m not sure!...Would take the pressure off..if you only got to see your man once in a blue moon!;-)
    Bob/PKB

    What pressure??? :D
    millie111

    House work..etc etc!:-)
    Bob/PKB

    pshaw!


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