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    Hey guys a new update on Dad

    My Dad is getting worse his breathing is very bad and he is starting to forgetting stuff and before dinner he said to me that I was a good son and he loves me and my sister to we called my big sister and informed her about Dad when she arrived here we called the on call hospice nurse He may be dying so pray for us this is very scary:)xxx

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    whovin

    Thank you xxx

    I understand your pain and sadness, just remember we are all here for you Whovin.I wish you and your family strength at this difficult time.

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Stay strong, Whovin...


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    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Very sorry to hear about your dad. No matter how much you prepare yourself mentally for the inevitable, the shock of a loved one passing away leaves you numb never the less. Spend as much time as possible with him at this time. God be with you all.

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    My prayers are with you Whovin. I am sure your dad knows how much you love him, and that is very important for both of you. May your God be with you.

    whovin

    Thank you:}

    I send a wish that he has an easy transition. I'm sure he will. Strength to you and your family. He is being looked after spiritually and he will leave this world filled with love. No one could ask for more. Love him and let him go. That is the best thing you can do for him. You will feel good for doing it once the pain passes. 

    whovin

    Thanks Colleen it is to do this but I have said goodbye to him in my heart and to him not out loud I have held his hand several times while he was really scared it help him and have fond memories of Dad big ((HUG)) Colleen:)
    Colleen

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    If he needs you to say it's OK for him to leave out loud, you should do that. When my grandfather asked me if it was OK for him to die, I said yes. He smiled and said really? and I said if that's what you want to do then I would not ask him to stay. This put him at great peace and he passed two days later. He knew when I said yes, it was out of love. It would have been selfish for me to say no because I would have been trying to keep him here in pain just for me so I would not have to miss him. I loved him too much for that and he knew it. He went with love. I still feel the love he left me for letting him go to where he could be happy and pain free.

    A son loves his dad so much, that is apparent. Love him more and wish him peace. Tell him so....

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    May god be with him and all your family. Love and prayers, Ann.

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Be strong.  God bless your dad.  God bless your family!

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    MY FRIEND .YOUR MUM REALLY NEEDS YOU AND SISTER TO BE BRAVE IN HER PRESENCES DAD WOULD WANT THAT .HE IS BLESSED WITH a GOOD LOVING FAMILY .HE WILL GO ON HIS JOURNEY KNOWING THAT MY DAD DID AND MUM.TAKE CARE OF MUM SIS, AND YOURSELF.  YOUR GOOD PEOPLE . 

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Stay with your Dad as much as possible, hold his hand, and talk to him, then he wont feel scared or alone. God Bless your Dear Dad, you and your family. xx

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Be patient and strong !

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Your a good man Whovin,peace be with you and yours.

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Be strong Wovin my prayers go out for you and your dad at such a trying time.

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Stay with him and tell him you love him, thinking of you. God bless you and your family.

    whovin

    Thank you:)

    Keep those good thoughts and words from your Dad close to your heart, Whovin.  You are in my prayers. 

    whovin

    Thank you Bob/PKB he died early this morning at 4.54-AM 8/12/12 it was very peaceful passing he was a great DAD!!!
    Bob/PKB

    My very sincere condolences to you and your family, Whovin. May your memories always bring you smiles. Much friendship, Bob/PKB


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