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Hey yall I need lots of help, thought I would give this a try first..I am sing.le and a widower. I met a wonderful man 20 years ago, only drawback was he was married. Well his wife of 36 years died, at that time I had met another wonderful guy, only to lose him 4 years later to lung cancer. Keep in mind this 1st man and I have always kept in touch and been in each others lives. Well heres the sticker. He all of a sudden married another woman that he went to school with and growed up across the s

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country bumpkin

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He's a married man... Leave him be!

11 years ago. Rating: 11
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blinkblink

I dont bother him, he calls me and tells me he loves me everyday,Thanks for gettin back with me.

commented 11 years ago

country bumpkin

Is this the sort of man you want to be with? How many women will he be calling when he's with you!

commented 11 years ago

millie111

What A B*****D!!(TOTAL)!:-(...Yep sorry I agree with CB...Go find some NICE man...plenty of good ones (Unmarried/loyal/loving..only eyes for you..to be had)!!...Plus you need to gain some respect/self and confidence..you certainly won`t via man like this horror!!:-¬

commented 11 years ago

Tommyh

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Ain't love a bitch?

Timing is the biggest problem you guys seem to have.

I don't think you should persue this relationship any further.It's only going to end in heartbreak for somebody.

Find a single guy.

11 years ago. Rating: 10
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millie111

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ok..it`s bad luck for you!..But I think that you should try and be happy that he`s met and married someone he loves..If he can..then no doubt you can too..but I too think you are looking in the wrong area....Married....are off limits..plenty o singles out there!

good luck!

11 years ago. Rating: 10
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pythonlover

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What will be, will be.Accept that this relationship was not meant to be.

11 years ago. Rating: 9
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lindilou

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Obviously the guy wants a wife (not you) and a bit on the side (you). But you already knew that didn't you? Either way it's a lose/lose situation for you if you are looking to be more than just a bit on the side...no wonder he says he "loves" you...you tolerate and accept his treatment of you by setting yourself in the role of mistress and remaining there...he has his cake and eats it too! You are just the icing...