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    Revenge is a dish better thrown in the trash... with the rest of the garbage. What do you do woth you revenge fantasies?

    We all have them... don't ask innocent... 

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    Revenge is a negative emotion. I have never had the desire for revenge.

    lambshank

    your a very nice person Ann, I wish I were more like that
    Ann

    Thanks, Lambi so are you!

    Revenge fantasies?Bide your time then go get your own back when that person thinks youve forgotten.....Thats mine at the moment anyway!!Itll keep.....

    I seek revenge allot less than I have before. However I do not think I can say I will ever be rid of it.

    lambshank

    an honest remark Ed

    When embarking  a upon  a journey of revenge dig two graves.Confucius""

    Honestly, I enjoy my revenge fantasies.  Then I feel bad for having the thoughts. Then I put the evil thoughts aside, more or less forgive and forget the latest "injustice" in my life. 
    One thing I don't do is "get even".  

    Give up to GOD " revenge is mine saith the LORD, although it's not always as easy as it sounds but it does get easier and less painful than punching a wall..!!

    Revenge is a dish best served when cold....In other words, bide your time. Turn about is fair play, they'll get theirs in the end whether you do anything or not..............

    Oh Jenn, I understand it completely and it's something I grapple with too.  These thoughts can turn into huge resentments and I've been taught that having resentments is like setting yourself on fire instead of the other person/people(the resentment hurts you not the other person).  It has also been suggested to me to pray for the other people/person that they have everything you want in your life (even if you don't mean it).  Does it always work- not for me (yet).  I do pray to have the courage to forgive them (and remember forgiving someone does not OK what they have done- forgiveness is for you so you get get rid of the load and carry on without that burden).  People can be so mean and evil to one another and it is hard when you are their prey!!!!!!  I will pray for you!!!!!

    I tend to store feelings of resentment and revenge, but I try  to put them aside as best I can, but I can't say I'm not quietly happy if, and usually when that person digs themselves into a hole, maybe not a healthy attitude, but satisfying none the less, trick is not to let it eat you up, some things we cannot change and as hard as it can be we just have to accept some things, no matter how unfair it seems, try and rise above it, you will prove to be the better person



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