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    my parents fight day and night and i cant stand it i don't no weather i should kill myself or runaway ive tryed 2 runaway couple of times wen my parents werent home but den i could and i cant take dis anymore i come home from scool noing im gonna here dem fighting or my mum crying and i dont wanna leave my siblings either i have 1 sis and 3 bros donno wat 2 do som1 plz help me or give me advice im only ten dont no wat 2 do???

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    Honey here are two phone numbers that I want you to call.I know what you are feeling like and the people at both of these phone numbers know too!Please call CHILD HELP U.S.A. at this FREE number>>>1-800-422-4453     OR you can call the YOUTH CRISIS LINE for FREE at>>>1-800-448-4663   PLEASE CALL! They can help you!!

    I'm sorry you have to live in that situation. PLease don't run away  b/c it's rough out there in the streets. And please don't attempt to kill yourself. It's not the answer. Go to a trusted teacher or other adult and tell her the situation. Hopefully, they can guide  you to the school social worker who could maybe make arrangements for you to move in with a relative or close friend.


     

    Your parents are having problems and none if it is your fault. They need help.by perhaps seeing someone in Family Service. As for you, call the numbers that lindilou gave you. Talk to your uncles. aunts and grandparents., you councelor at school, a pastor or priest.. Just hang on. things will get better by reaching out.. You can talk to us any time and we will be there for you.and help you get through these problems at home.

    please try telling your parents that you can't stand to hear them fighting day and night, and that it makes you want to run away.  If that doesnt help, talk to a grandparent, aunt, uncle, some other adult you are close to, and ask for help.  If anyone hurts YOU personally or one of your brothers or sisters, call 911.

    Know this, child.  Your parents fighting is NOT your fault.  You've done nothing wrong, and you should never think about hurting yourself.  It's about your parents.  They need help. 


    You've received good advice here.  If you can, talk to your parents together and tell them how you feel.  Also, talk to to a teacher, guidance counselor, preacher, adult relative (grandparents are usually good to talk to) or call the numbers provided by lindilou above.  People will help you and your family if you tell them how you feel.  Be strong, be patient and have faith that things will get better.  Because they will.   I assure you, if you talk to someone, things WILL get better.      

    lindilou

    Wonderful response!Thanks!

    I'd would mention this to a teacher or church elder that you can trust.  Perhaps someone older may have the wisdom to help you through this, and yes, this phase of your life will eventually pass.  Hang in there.  You are not alone.

    Headless Man

    I can see Umbriel you don't know about most churches, an church elder could be very helpful talking to the family or just safsaf da first.

    Kid, all good advise here. The longer you don't discuss this problem with someone you trust, the longer you and your brothers and sisters will have to put up with the yelling. Talk to someone now.

    millie111

    Nice one Ed!!:-)

    Hi recomanding 1>tell them about your feelings include your sisters and brothers to the conversation and if possible your uncels-aunts grandparents or recommanding 2>tell your teacher about the familysituation they will help youor recommanding 3>seak help true the police and they will tell you or help you to find proffessionel help!If you do that you will not only help yourself but also your sisters&brothers and most of all your mom and dadd because all of you are suffering.You have also the chance of a familyadwise center.They will talk to your parents and help them what ever it is the problem between your parrents!God luck and dont do nothing foolish everything will be ok.ill pray for you all.

    lindilou

    Beautiful response!Thanking You!Peace.
    millie111

    yes..Great answer! :-)

    I hear you man

    I have sympathy for you, there lot of good advice here, please don't hurt yourself ,you just need to be patience, and keep hoping thing will get better as we all pray for you, lot of Love!!!!

    my brothers ALWAYS MEAN TO ME!

    ASK YOUR PARENTS TO PLEASE STOP..SOMETIMES THEY DONT EVEN REALIZE THAT YOU ARE AWARE OF THESE THINGS.DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT SUICIDE OR HURTING YOU.LOVE YOURSELF MOST OF ALL .AND R SIBLINGS TO.IF YOUR PARENTS DONT QUIT.PRAY SWEETIE GOD CAN DO WHAT WE CANT...

    It's been months since you posted this question. Can you please let us know how this played out? We're rooting for you.



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