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Mostly cause their miserable with themselfs.

For the sake of self worth, the lesser you make the other person out to be, the bigger you are. Sick but, that always seems to be the case.............................

In theory you can free yourself of pain (guilt, suffering under the weight of excessive responsibility, and fear) by imposing those burdens on others and it can be done profitably. But it doesn’t work forever and there are penalties, life is too short to escape what you imposed on others... returning to tax your existence into a hole. Many folk simply don’t know how to handle their own burdens and seek to escape anyway they can. It is certainly understandable when it is not understood that you can choose how to see the world as a happy place to be...that has no negativity.   

Sometimes to try to  regenerate thier own self importance