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You're 13. You're too young to be playing around sexually. Knock it off, you don't even understand what you're doing. Are you ready to be a father at 13? Put it way, concentrate on school and stop trying to make girls like you through sex. If she's smart she's staying away from you just to keep you from getting her pregnant. Where are your parents??? You can't even spell sexually for Pete's sake! Stop it!

Colleen

Tough love. Something his parents should be doing.

First thing...Show some interest in her other than sex.

If you like her....really like her...look after her & don't talk about her to your buddies.

The first thing that will bring this sort of relationship down is when word gets back to her about something that you have said about her.

Under no circumstances ever let her find out that you asked this question on this forum.

If there was going to be any more to this friendship,it would have happened by now.Your sexual promiscuity has wrecked any chance for you to prove to this girl,that her friendship means more to you than just "playing around sexually".You are only 13,just get puberty out of the way first,and wait until you become more mature .

I am totally speechless.  This guy with his playing with her sexually, and she says "we're friends", and he's barely entering puberty.  I am just dumbfounded.  I need Benchong to deal with this.  I give.

Hi Justin. I remember being 13 and the hormones raging inside me. Thinking about girls and sex 24 hours a day is normal but very dangerous at that age. If you play around sexually with a girl, sooner or later you will become a daddy with a child to support. Are you really ready for that? If you want the girl to like you, you should treat her with respect. Just be friendly with her and maybe she will respect you for that. I really think you should talk with your parents about her and ask their opinion about your friendship.