21 Answers

Number one, she trying to put you in a situation so you don't reveal her secret to her husband. Number two, I would tell her, you made your bed so lie in it. Number three, Tell her, I say what I mean and I mean what I say. So please don't come back, now, get the steppin'.

This is a mentally unstable woman. Dont open the door or talk to her anymore. Also you know nothing about the man with the motorcycle. They both could do you harm. Call the police if she comes to your house again.

I would be very careful of this woman she sounds a little nutty be very careful and dont open the door if she is there try and be with someone if she comes round and just be firm and say I am only going to tell you one more time I dont want anything from you and I will not tell the husband and thats a promise but if you keep coming round here I will inform the police as I have evrything recoreded and its not in the house or if anything happens to myselve they will be coming for you I have had to be like this as you are quite scarry so now leave me alone and dont come back good luck

Stay out of her life.  Just ignore it.  You have nothing to gain.  If the husband finds out because of you, she'll know you were the cause.  It's her life, not yours.  Leave it alone.

Her "boy friend" could do you or your loved ones some harm.  Be careful when a dog is cornered.

Tell her if she does not leave you alone, you will tell her husband and then report her to the police as a stalker. She sounds like a nutjob. Stay away from her and keep her out of your house! I can only imagine the STD's she might have.

Arm yourself.

You have a problem! Stay away from mental illness 101 ! Her husband, and boyfriend. Your dealing with 3 people that don't sound to healthy, mentally. Anything could happen. Explain this to the police, and have them write a report up. You want it on file.

Now knowing a little about this woman,  the husband will be hard to convince that you didn't spank his wife, or have sex with her. You admitted to talking with pretty girls about doing this activity. Do not give people that kind of fuel to use against you! Not crazy people!

Copy this question for your files to prove you were seeking advice. Just to be safe. If it lands in court.

Do not open your door to her! And for God sake if you gave her your home phone number get it changed! ASAP!

I deal with nuts everyday! This is no joke! They take things to a different level, not anywhere you want to go!

Be safe!

The guy that works with your brother probably now has a sexually transmitted disease.. Tell your brother now so the disease transmission path will stop. I dont give a damn about hurting somebodies feelings or marriage. If she wants to mess around with that guy she's not worth living with. If she is offering you sex, guess what , you will get it. The black guy has a criminal background. Warn your neighbors and report to the police. Dont get weak about this, you need both of them of the out of the area. There is something mentally wrong with her hanging around a guy like him.

Should of asked her to give you the motorcycle she was supposedly buying.

She is a nervous wreck by the sounds of it,and so she should be.Don't let her implicate you in her little sexual adventures,she is a liar and a cheat and not to mention a complete nut case.Her husband deserves to know about her infedelity,just keep out of it and let her live with a guilty concience.

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In my comment with first sentence -- "I've been stalked."

I went on to say ... "We slept in motels for three weeks. On the weekends when it was too expensive, we slept in the car..................

OMG: I did not mean I slept in the car and motel with the stalker. I slept with my husband. 

The motels in our area were crazy expensive ... like $150.00 a night on weekend.

My Face is red.

I've been stalked. Terrifying. We slept in motels for about three weeks. On the weekends when it was too expensive we slept in the car. And then we sold our house and left the area without telling ANYONE where we were going. I think you should report this woman BEFORE anything happens so the police just have an idea of what's going on.  She's crazy and probably on some drug and so is her boyfriend and husband.  You are in danger.

Don't play with that spanking fantasy hobby,  Bad boy! tsk tsk.   : D

I am stuck on the spanking thing.. What does that mean?.... Honestly  I would tell him annonomously.  There are ways.

NO. YOU HANDLED THIS VERY POORLY.  WHAT KIND OF AN IDIOT ARE YOU?

I can't believe you would would even consider making a deal with this woman.  You told her you wouldn't say anything.  That should be enough.

Then she comes back and offers you sex, which is disgusting, and you start trying to make a deal with her to get your house cleaned?   Why would you even want this lunatic IN your home? Spanking her????   You have got to be kidding.  Now you are just being a pervert; this woman is screwing around on her husband and I can get a piece of the action?  Again, WHAT KIND OF AN IDIOT ARE YOU.
You then give her your phone number so she can THINK about your proposition.  You realize that you are commiting extortion to ask her for anything in exchange for you keeping your big fat mouth shut (which obviously you can't do because you have spread it all over here). You'll be lucky if she doesn't go to the police and tell them YOU approached HER and threatened to expose her if she didn't give in to your sexual demands.

I HOPE YOU HAVE NO CHILDREN.  I HOPE YOU HAVE A VASECTOMY.  YOU SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO REPRODUCE. 

Banksizit: Keep cool. I kind of understand where you are coming from. You're a joker. 

I guess you learned that this time was not a time for that. I learned some things too. Yeah, get it on file. That's for the best.  

Whew!

Let us know what happens. We NEED to know. You know that. We're all kind of scared. This

is a tight group here.  You found that out.

Your friend,

Itsmee  9/5/2011

TO EACH IS OWN, but, I'd have to inform her husband (#1) Wouldn't you want to know if it was reversed (#2) It violates my beliefs (#3) To me not to tell makes one just as GUILITY (#4) Your more than likely already marked for harm/death or being set-up for a fall but, YOU have to decide, WHAT'S RIGHT AND WHAT TO DO, WE CAN ONLY SUGGEST!!!!!!!!!!!!

theres some odd people about........

Mr. if you consumate adeal of any kind with this wooman  you are letting  yoourself wide open for  way more than you  can imagine.  to me it sounds as  she may have you targeted  for  her fall guy.

Why did you ask her to give you a spanking?  That's kind of weird banksizit. 

just tell her to show you her boobs then tell her there you go its all good have a good life cuz by the sounds she aint going to leave you alone o and get a pic of them then send them to everyone you no with the word cheater

banksizit, so what happened after you told your brother to tell the husband.  So I guess you are in to S&M or just the spanking?  Are you  married?  Come on, tell me/us!   yvonne57