close
    1. Home
      2. ›
    2. Uncategorized
      3. ›
    3. Why is it so hard to forgive people who have hurt you when nobody is perfect and everyone has committed sins at one point in thier life?
    Why is it so hard to forgive people who have hurt you when nobody is perfect and everyone has committed sins at one point in thier life?

    Answer this
    +1  Views: 473 Answers: 4 Posted: 13 years ago
    Comment this question

      4 Answers

      Pain is pain... You may accidently touch a hot burner but it still burns.. If you were hurt it doesnt just go away. It takes time to heal.

      13 years ago. Rating: 2
      Comment this answer

        Spaceghost

        Very good answer.
        commented 13 years ago

        It is not the forgiving that's hard - it is the forgetting. Also so dissappointing.

        13 years ago. Rating: 3
        Comment this answer

          Because when people do not act in accordance to a higher expectation, the results can be disappointing.


          People find it hard to forgive since you have NOT  lived up to their standard, or you have let them down.  Just don't give up and try harder the next time.  It'll get better.


           

          13 years ago. Rating: 2
          Comment this answer

            U right Dopey...forgetting sometimes never happens....like example I am thinking of a murderer who killed a child...the mother for example(could be father,uncle,any relative 4 that matter)will have a hard time forgiving  AND definitely she will never forget that her child is no longer here with her...BUT I have watched interviews where the family eventually forgave and even started a relationship with the person who committed the crime...THIS IS STRENGTH!!I do not know if I will ever be able to do that!but we must move on I guess..in order to find inner peace

            13 years ago. Rating: 1
            Comment this answer

              Poppy3

              GNAMA 197 - I know so many people say "Move On" I do not like this saying - so annoying especially when they have not experienced such awful pain - just not easy and so easy to say. Like your answer. Also like your question. Where are you now?
              commented 10 years ago


              Did this answer your question? If not, then ask a new question.

              Top contributors in Uncategorized category

               
              ROMOS
              Answers: 18061 / Questions: 154
              Karma: 1102K
               
              Colleen
              Answers: 47269 / Questions: 115
              Karma: 953K
               
              country bumpkin
              Answers: 11322 / Questions: 160
              Karma: 838K
               
              Benthere
              Answers: 2392 / Questions: 30
              Karma: 760K
              > Top contributors chart
              488234
              questions
              724844
              answers
              820083
              users