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    FEELING USED

    THERE WAS A FRIEND THAT I CARED FOR. HE HAD SURGERY I STOOD BY HIM FOR 31/2 DAYS.BOUGHT HIM FOOD.PAID FOR THE ROOM PAID FOR HIS MEDICINE.I ASKED HIM CAN I STAY WITH HIM ONE FOR DAY.HE SAID HE HAD MADE OTHER PLANS.AND THAT HE DID NOT WANT ME AROUND HIM TO LONG..AND HE SAID THAT HOW HE FEELS. HE DID NOT WANT TO MAKE A CONVERSATION.IN THE MORNING.AND TOLD ME LETS TAKE A TRIP BEFORE I GO BACK TO WORK.....SHOULD I GO ON A TRIP WITH HIM.

    +1  Views: 270 Answers: 7 Posted: 12 years ago

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    What kind of a mug are you Edna? Why would you go on a trip with this user.Move on Kiddo,give this jerk the flick.You will never get anywhere with him.He's just using you to fill in the gaps in his life. If I sound a bit harsh I'm sorry.I have seen this situation so many times & it never fails to get my hackles up.


    You are a good caring person,just a little too trusting.There are better things out there for you.


     

    No, you should not make a trip with him. Break away, find someone new. Find out why you're so needy that you would try to buy a friend, then allow him to hurt you.

    In life there are two types of people. Givers and takers. Sadly some givers aren't doing it for the right reasons and takers can see the vulnerable ones. I would bet my arse that he expects you to pay for the trip. Pull away from this man and if he comes to you with a giving hand and shows you appreciation, then maybe let your guard down. You are questioning his intentions in your question so you know deep in your heart the answer here. A true friend that wants to be a good friend does not continuously take from you. There must be balance in the give and take.

    Are you out of your mind?  You're going to be used again.  You'll be back here crying, again.


    Stop it.  Cut your losses.  Get him out of your life, like NOW!   You tell him that we say he's butt hole.

    I'm pretty sure you know the answer to this. Tell this guy to haul ass. If you feel like throwing some money around, my beer frig just died. Can you help?

    Go.....only if he pays for everything.

    Give the mongrel the flick, put the boot in.



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