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    what do i do if have a boyfriend who hardly talks to me

    smart sexy tall.

    +4  Views: 2582 Answers: 25 Posted: 8 years ago
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    At first I was going to suggest that you dump him, until I read your byline about him being "smart,sexy and tall"

    Just assume that he's the quiet type.
    country bumpkin

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    He has a hairy chest too.
    digger

    You are soooo...70's.
    Ducky

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    don don knows what is important. "Boyfriend" doesn't need to talk.....he can just parade around the house. Oooo-whee!!!
    Then how do you know he's your boyfriend? I would think he would want to get to know you, maybe just shy, some guys need to be encouraged.
    Had one of these once. He was actually more comfortable talking to other guys than me. Found out what he really liked to talk about and then couldn't shut him up.
    hector5559

    i bet it was about cars ,or motor bikes,
    ask him questions about himself. Most people like to talk about themselves. When you do hear him talking to somebody else, or you,then notice the subject that he loves to talk about.
    As time goes along, he'll feel more confident, adn talk to you more.

    Does he do anything else besides not talking?  If he does housework and remains quiet, keep him.  If he brings lots of goodies home, keep him.  If he makes good money and shares it with you, keep him.  If he makes great love to you, definitely keep him.  Otherwise, you know what to do.

    hector5559

    if hes like the above i would not mind him,

    You just say - Next!

    Maybe he is just shy. Find out what his passions are and try to learn a bit about them so you can get him talking about what he likes. I also found through past experiences that allowing him to be quiet and not taking it nervously will let him relax. Start asking a few more questions to get him out of his quiet shyness but don't become a nervous chatter box.
    6dogs4us is right. Find out what he is interested in, and talk to him about those subjects.
    don don, try to be yourself, not all for him. Guys run away if girls chase after.
    Is that his personality or is it only around you?
    Enjoy not being interrupted?

    What makes him your "boyfriend"? Is this mutual? So, talk with him and ask. If you don't like the answer well, you know where the door is.  You love  him? What possibly for?

    Tickle him and he will respond.

    If he hardly talks to you tellhim that you are moving on and he needs to interact more if you want me back
    your lucky, he's not going to say anything that worth hearing anyway.
    shut up and maybe he'll get a chance!!!!!!!lol, just kidding
    I don't know either.

    ditch him!

    He's not a boy friend and you are apparently a convience.

    Make sure that you understand him before you commit. I thought that mine was just shy and quiet. Turns out he has Asperger's.It is a daily struggle to communicate with him.He also passed it to our son. I constantly work with my son on communication, he's better than his Dad but still struggles. Just be sure!
    WELL here some ideas if you have a phone ? TEXT HIM and tack a pictur of ur self and send it to him and then call him it works
    Dump the bum better blokes out there sweetie pie
    YOU SIT HIM DOWN AND COMMUNICATE YOUR CONCERN....AGREE TO DISAGREE...REASON, COMPROMISE AND MAKE HIM BELIEVE, COMMUNICATION IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT.
    If you have met any of his friends, male or female, ask if he is shy. Maybe he is timid with you on a personal one on one but like an introvert and when in a group is an extrovert. Maybe he likes to you carry the conversation. Age is also a factor.
    Take a long look at yourself, maybe that is the reason.
    witchway

    Really? This is your answer?


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