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    Who to get out of my depression?

    I finish with my girl 10 months ago, but now I cant see anyone else, I miss my ex but she is now with another person and I alone with out any motivation to see someone else, ┬┐what can I do so I can see other people?

    0  Views: 896 Answers: 3 Posted: 7 years ago

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    She has moved on and it is time for you to move on yourself. I am truly sorry that you loved her and she did not love you back, but you cannot make a person feel for you what you want them to feel. I am truly sorry but that is the truth. Chin up pick yourself up and move on I know that is easier said than done but who wants to be or spend their time and life with someone who does not love them back. that in itself is sheer torture Let her go, move on even through your pain there is someone out there for you quit pining away for the person you thought she was and was not because you cannot make her be that person.

    LET HER GO AND CONCENTRATE ON WHAT TYPE OF GAL WOULD YOU WANT IF YOU COULD SNAP YOUR FINGERS AND ORDER HER UP. ON A PIECE OF PAPER WRITE ONE WORD ON EACH LINE TIL YOU HAVE DESCRIBED YOUR PERFECT PARTNER. INCLUDE EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING!! ONCE YOU WRITE YOUR LIST DOWN PLACE IT IN A SPECIAL SPOT YOU WONT FORGET ABOUT. YOU WILL BE AMAZED AT HOW WRITING YOUR LIST DOWN HELPS YOU TO BE OPEN TO FIND YOUR NEXT GAL WHO WILL MEET YOUR QUALIFICATIONS. DONT FORCE IT LET IT HAPPEN AND IT WILL. WHEN YOU DO START DATING SOMEONE PULL OUT YOUR LIST AND SEE HOW SHE MATCHES UP.
    ON A SEPARATE SHEET OF PAPER WRITE DOWN 5 DEAL BREAKERS. THESE ARE A NO GO FOR YOU. TRAITS OR HABITS THAT ARE NOT OK WITH YOU IN A PERSON TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.
    HERE'S A MAJOR CLUE FOR YOU - ONLY DATE WOMEN WHO LIKE THEIR DADS AND HAVE GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE MEN IN HER LIFE. YOU DONT WANT A MAN HATER WHO HAS A CHIP ABOUT MALES BECAUSE OF HER RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCES AND VIEWS OF MEN. ALWAYS START HERE BEFORE YOU INVEST ANYTIME INTO HER. IT'S EASY TO BRING UP IN CONVERSATION WHEN YOU ASK EACH OTHER ABOUT YOUR FAMILYS WHICH ALWAYS COMES UP IN THE FIRST 2 DATES. HOPE THIS HELPS YOU!!! GOOD LUCK

    LOOK AFTER NUMBER 1 MATE, I HAVE BEEN THERE TOO AND IT HERTS LIKE HELL BUT U KNOW WHAT YOU WILL BECOME A STRONGER AND MORE CONFIDENT PERSON FOR IT. DONT LET SOMEONE BREAK YOUR CONFIDENTS NO MATTER WHO IT IS THEIR ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA MATE. AND I DONT MEAN TO BE BLUNT BUT MAN UP. HOPE ALL GOES WELL WITH THE WOMEN HUNTING. DONT CALL HER OR TXT WORD OF ADVICE TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT.PEACE!



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