FIRST , TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND THINK IF SHE WAS YOUR CHILD WHAT WOULD YOU DO...I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE..SHE ONLY 22YRS ..IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE COMING BETWEEN THEM... ..YOU ARE.... STAY OUT OF IT...YOU ARE MARRYING HER FATHER NOT HER...IF HE LETS HIS CHILD TREAT HIM LIKE POOP LET HIM WORK IT OUT WITH HER...HE HAS TO BE A GOOD MAN YOU SAID YES.... I KNOW IT HARD TO SEE THE MAN YOU LOVE GO THROUGH THIS.....BUT YOU WILL BE HAPPIER FOR IT....I'M GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING....THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ME AND YOU I'M NOT IN IT....I JUST TELL MY SWEETHEART DON'T GIVE UP ON YOUR CHILD SHE WILL GROW UP ONE DAY....PLEASE DON'T LET ANYONE COME BETWEEN YOU AND THE ONE YOU LOVE ......PRAYING FOR YOU